Am I Bisexual?

Take this quiz to find out!
Co-authored by Deb Schneider, LCSW, PPSC

If you have ever wondered “Am I bisexual?”, you’re not alone—and you’ve come to the right place. Bisexuality means romantic or sexual attraction to more than one gender, and there’s no exact set of criteria or experiences you have to check off to identify that way.

If you’re looking to explore your attractions, we’ve got the quiz for you. Ready to get some answers?

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Questions Overview

1. How would you feel if a person of the same gender asked for your number?
  1. I’d be thrilled.
  2. I’d be nervous. My stomach would probably do a little flip.
  3. I’d be curious about getting to know them better.
  4. I’d be flattered, but I’d let them know I’m not interested.
2. When you think about a long-term relationship, who do you imagine as your partner?
  1. I see myself with someone who identifies as the same gender as me.
  2. I could see myself with a partner of any gender, including non-binary or gender-expansive people.
  3. I’d be happy with a man or a woman.
  4. I see myself with someone who identifies as the opposite gender.
3. How’s your knowledge of LGBTQ+ pop culture?
  1. I’m an expert on everything from queer ships to gay slang.
  2. I probably know about more queer content and influencers than most people.
  3. I’d say I have average knowledge.
  4. I’m not super up-to-date on gay pop culture.
4. Have you ever fantasized about someone of the same gender?
  1. Yes, definitely. But I also fantasize about people of a different gender.
  2. Maybe, but hasn’t everybody?
  3. Once or twice.
  4. No.
5. Have you ever kissed someone of the same gender?
  1. Yes, and I’d do it again.
  2. Yes, and that’s why I’m taking this quiz.
  3. No, but I wonder if I’d be into it.
  4. I don’t think I’d like it, or I tried it and didn’t like it.
6. Have you ever had romantic feelings for a friend of the same gender?
  1. Yes, I definitely had a crush on my same-gender best friend.
  2. Yes, I think I can crush on people regardless of gender.
  3. Maybe, I’m not sure if that was a crush or not.
  4. No, I don’t think so.
7. Do people ever ask you if you’re bisexual or queer?
  1. Yeah, people pretty much just assume that.
  2. My parents or close friends have asked about it.
  3. No one’s ever asked me that, but I wouldn’t be shocked if they did ask.
  4. Nope. People assume I’m straight.
8. Have you ever felt “butterflies” around someone of the same gender?
  1. For sure, but I also get butterflies around people of the opposite sex.
  2. Only with one specific person or when I look at a really attractive celebrity.
  3. I’ve felt a little nervous, but that’s probably just normal.
  4. No. Don’t think so.
9. Why did you decide to take this quiz?
  1. I’m pretty sure I’m bisexual.
  2. I don’t think I’m straight, but I’m not sure what I am.
  3. I’m taking this just for fun!
  4. I think I’m straight but just checking.
10. How do you feel about putting a label on your sexual identity or attraction?
  1. Labels can be helpful.
  2. I personally don’t like using labels, but I know other people like them.
  3. Labels are confusing and/or unnecessary.
  4. I’ve never really thought about it before.
11. When you imagine kissing or being intimate with a future partner, how do you feel?
  1. As long as I’m with someone I really like, that sounds great.
  2. Good, I guess?
  3. I can’t imagine that and I don’t think I’ll ever want that, regardless of gender.
  4. I’m too young for that.
12. Have you ever thought your crushes or feelings of attraction were different from other people's?
  1. Yes, I probably questioned my sexuality more than other people.
  2. Sometimes, and I can’t explain why.
  3. Maybe, but that could just be from my personality or upbringing.
  4. No, I don't think my experience with crushes is super different.
13. Is a person’s gender a deal-breaker in a future relationship?
  1. Not at all! I could absolutely see myself dating someone of the same gender.
  2. Nah, not really. The gender of my partner doesn’t really matter to me.
  3. It might be, but it really depends on the person.
  4. Definitely. I have specific gender preferences in my relationships.
14. Do you feel like the word “queer” is a good label for you?
  1. Absolutely! I definitely vibe with that label.
  2. Sort of, but I don’t know if it’s the perfect label for me.
  3. Not especially, but I haven’t given it much thought.
  4. Not at all. I don’t identify with that label.
15. Would you feel comfortable if someone referred to you as bisexual?
  1. Definitely!
  2. I would probably be fine with that.
  3. Probably not—I’m not sure if that’s the right label for me.
  4. Nope. I would correct them right away.
16. What stresses you out the most about identifying as bisexual?
  1. Societal prejudices toward the queer community.
  2. Being too queer for the straight community and too straight for the queer community.
  3. Not completely identifying with the label.
  4. I don’t think I’m bisexual, so I would never be in that position.

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All About Bisexuality

What do the letters in LGBTQ+ stand for?
Believe it or not, there isn’t one “official” or “standard” acronym within the LGBTQ+ community—sexuality and gender identity are deeply personal experiences, and each individual gets to decide what each label means to them. Here’s a quick rundown of the most common terms and definitions that you might run into:

  • Lesbian: A woman or nonbinary individual who feels attracted (romantically, emotionally, sexually, etc.) to other women.
  • Gay: An all-encompassing term used for individuals who are attracted to people of the same gender. This used to be a male-exclusive term, but it’s evolved to include a wider range of people.
  • Bisexual: An individual who experiences attraction to the same gender and at least one more gender identity.
  • Transgender: An individual whose current gender identity doesn’t line up with the gender they were assigned at the time of their birth.
  • Queer: Any individual whose sexuality and/or gender identity doesn’t line up with mainstream/heteronormative standards. While this word has a historical connotation as a slur, it’s since been reclaimed by the LGBTQ+ community.
  • Questioning: A person who is currently delving into their sexuality and/or gender identity to see if they identify as queer.

Are bisexuality and pansexuality the same thing?
Not quite, but they’ve often been used as synonyms of one another. Bisexual individuals feel attraction toward people of the same sex and at least one additional gender identity, while pansexual people feel attraction to individuals of any gender identity. Ultimately, the choice to use the bisexual or pansexual label is a completely personal one.


Common Misconceptions about Bisexuality

  • False: Bisexual people are just confused, not attracted to multiple gender identities.
    • Truth: Bisexuality is a valid and real sexuality. Sexuality is an incredibly personal and subjective construct, and it’s completely not uncommon for someone to be attracted to multiple gender identities.
  • False: Bisexual people are less likely to be faithful in a relationship.
    • Truth: Bisexual people are just as faithful as individuals of other sexualities. Assuming that a bisexual individual will be unfaithful due to their broader array of attraction is unfair and simply untrue. A person’s decision to be faithful/unfaithful is a matter of character, not sexuality.
  • False: Bisexual individuals aren’t true members of the queer community.
    • Truth: Bisexual individuals are valid and loved members of the queer community. Unfortunately, some bi people are made to feel like they’re too queer to be part of the straight community and too “straight” to be part of the queer community. In truth, bisexual individuals are attracted to members of the same gender—because of this, they always have and always will be members of the LGBTQ+ community.

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