Is My Husband a Narcissist?

Take this quiz to learn if he has narcissistic tendencies.

Does your husband have a big ego? Does it seem like he lacks concern for your feelings? If so, you might be starting to wonder if he could actually be a narcissist. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is characterized by high self-importance, excessive need for praise, and a lack of empathy, and it’s more common in men than women. It's important to note, though, that people can still have narcissistic traits without having NPD.

While only a qualified mental health professional can diagnose your husband, this quiz can help you get a better sense of whether or not he has narcissistic traits and tendencies. Take this quiz to find out where your husband falls on the narcissism spectrum so you’re more informed moving forward in your marriage.

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Questions Overview

1. Your husband needs a lot of praise and admiration to be happy.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
2. Your husband acts like he’s very important and significant.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
3. Your husband often talks about his own power, success, intelligence, and/or attractiveness.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
4. Your husband acts like he’s special, and like only other special people are worth his time.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
5. Your husband acts entitled to whatever he wants.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
6. Your husband manipulates or takes advantage of other people.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
7. Your husband seems to lack empathy and understanding for others.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
8. Your husband envies other people and thinks they envy him, too.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.
9. Your husband acts like he’s superior to other people.
  1. Yes, regularly.
  2. Sometimes, but not consistently.
  3. Rarely.
  4. No, never.

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

The label “narcissist” gets thrown around a lot, but what exactly is narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)? NPD is a mental health disorder characterized by overly high self-importance, an excessive need for praise, a sense of entitlement, and a lack of empathy. Although narcissists may act better than other people, they’re actually deeply insecure. It’s because of their insecurities that they feel the need to convince everyone else of how great they are all the time, and it’s why they’re so sensitive to any criticisms or perceived slights.

Unfortunately, this constant posturing and avoidance of negative feelings can sometimes cause issues in romantic relationships. Some people with NPD might disregard their partner’s feelings, refuse to take accountability for their mistakes, and prioritize their own wants and needs over their partner’s. If you’re experiencing this with your partner, communicate how you’re feeling and set healthy boundaries so they know what behaviors you’re not okay with. Working with a therapist, both individually and as a couple, can also help.

At the end of the day, narcissists are people, not monsters. Still, because of a narcissist’s insecurities and low self-esteem, they may use unhealthy means to get their needs met, which can end up taking a toll on you. Remember to prioritize your mental health and well-being, and reach out to friends, family members, or a mental health professional if you need support.

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