Are They Your Soulmate or Your Twin Flame?

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You know they’re special—but are they your soulmate or your twin flame? What’s the difference, you ask? Well, while a soulmate is someone whose soul is a perfect complement to yours, like a puzzle piece, a twin flame is believed to literally share half of your soul—basically, it’s like you were both cut from the same cloth and you see yourself in each other.

So, which one are they? Take the quiz to find out!

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Questions Overview

1. How do you feel when you’re together?
  1. Passionate, dramatic, and occasionally chaotic.
  2. Calm and peaceful.
  3. Thrilled and excited, but also harmonious.
  4. Playful and flirty.
2. Are you exclusive?
  1. Definitely! We’re only seeing each other.
  2. I think so…. We haven’t discussed it yet.
  3. We’re just casual for now, but I’d like to be exclusive.
  4. We’re not exclusive, and I’m not sure if we will be.
3. How do you feel when you’re apart?
  1. Like I’m missing a part of me. It’s hard to be away from them.
  2. I can survive, but I miss them so much.
  3. I’m not sure—we’re never apart for long.
  4. Fine. I love being around them, but I don’t always have to be around them.
4. How is your communication?
  1. It’s like we can read each other’s minds—like we’re the same person, almost.
  2. Amazing—we’re naturally really in sync, but we also work hard to understand each other.
  3. It’s pretty good! We don’t always think and feel the same, but we still understand one another.
  4. It’s going well so far, but could always be better.
5. How do you handle conflicts when they arise?
  1. We collaborate to find a solution we can both get behind.
  2. We have long, emotionally intense discussions to see where the other person is coming from.
  3. We settle problems super fast, sometimes without discussing them much at all.
  4. Sometimes things get intense and heated. We just know how to press each other’s buttons.
6. Think forward 5, 10, 20 years from now. Are they there?
  1. Yes, definitely!
  2. I’m pretty confident they are.
  3. Even if we’re not romantically involved, we’re definitely still in each other’s lives.
  4. I don’t know what the future holds, but I know what we have is special.
7. How long have you two been close and connected?
  1. Less than a year
  2. 1-2 years
  3. 2-5 years
  4. 5+ years
8. Would you say you’re connected spiritually?
  1. Yes, definitely. It’s like we’re cosmically linked. We reflect one another’s true self.
  2. For sure. We’ve definitely known each other in a past life.
  3. Yes. We share a lot of spiritual beliefs and perspectives.
  4. I think so. We love each other so much, we must be connected in some supernatural way.
9. What word best describes your connection with your special person?
  1. Electric
  2. Long-lasting
  3. Passionate
  4. Fun
10. What are you building with them?
  1. A shared destiny and life purpose.
  2. A harmonious, lifelong partnership.
  3. Transformative and exciting shared experiences.
  4. A life of flirtation, playfulness, and joy.
11. What is your relationship founded on?
  1. Unconditional love, trust, and faith.
  2. Strong communication and mutual respect.
  3. Intense passion and mutual obsession.
  4. Pleasure, curiosity, and fun.
12. Do you believe they’re your twin flame or soulmate?
  1. I believe they’re my twin flame.
  2. I believe they’re my soulmate.
  3. I think they may be both!
  4. I’m not sure yet…

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Twin Flames and Soulmates—What’s the Difference?

What’s the difference between your “twin flame” and your “soulmate”? The two terms are sometimes used interchangeably, and in fact, your twin flame could also be a soulmate, but the 2 are actually different things!

A twin flame is someone who shares your soul. It’s believed every person’s soul was cut in half and shared with another body. This person could be a friend, a coworker, an artistic collaborator, or, that’s right, a soulmate. You and your twin flame are totally in sync and seem to understand one another perfectly. Sometimes, this makes for a relationship with lots of passion and chemistry, but other times, it can make you and your twin flame butt heads!

While you only have one twin flame, you can have any number of soulmates. A soulmate is someone you feel a deep and enduring connection with, somebody you can grow alongside and experience personal transformation with. While your twin flame relationship can teach you a lot about yourself, a soulmate relationship is one in which you and your partner learn alongside one another, experiencing life’s lessons together as a team. Twin flame relationships can be enriching, but they can also be chaotic, but a soulmate relationship is usually calm, harmonious, and committed.

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