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Texting your crush can be fun, but hitting them up constantly can seem a little clingy. Although it might be tough to resist, it’s important to give your crush some alone time (so they can realize how much they miss you, of course). We’ve compiled some of the ways you can stay strong and avoid texting your crush at all costs.
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QuestionWhen should you stop texting your crush?Kristina MirgorodskayaKristina Mirgorodskaya is a Dating Coach and the Marketing Director of Amiccio, a New York City social app that helps singles make new connections. Amiccio connects singles by hosting parties, socials, beginners salsa, bachata, and tango classes, and speed dating events. With over four years of experience, Kristina specializes in leveraging people skills, cultivating welcoming environments, and intercultural communication. Her expertise allows her to easily bring people together. Kristina earned a degree in business from Baruch College.
Dating ExpertIf your crush doesn’t respond after two texts, it’s a clear sign to give them some space. Any more than one follow-up text will not only make you seem desperate but could also annoy the other person if they don’t want to talk.
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Try talking to your crush in person instead of texting. If you can casually say hey while you pass by them in the halls, you might be able to get an IRL conversation going.Thanks
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