This article was co-authored by Nancy Lin, PhD and by wikiHow staff writer, Jennifer Mueller, JD. Dr. Nancy Lin is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Owner of Go to Sleep San Diego, a private practice providing therapy for people suffering from insomnia, trauma, depression, and related problems. She is also trained in issues related to cultural diversity in mental health. Dr. Lin holds a Bachelors degree in Psychology from The University of California, Berkeley and a Masters degree in Medical Anthropology from the University of London, SOAS. She earned her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from The University of Massachusetts Boston and completed an APA-accredited internship and postdoctoral training at the VA San Diego Healthcare System (VASDHS).
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Some people really have a way of getting under your skin and they'll say or do intentionally provocative things. This is called baiting. Their goal? To make you lash out in anger—and when you do this, it means they have the upper hand.[1] But you don't have to play this game. While you might not have any control over what someone else says or does, you can control how you respond to it. Read on to learn the best ways to respond when someone's trying to bait you into an argument.
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- ↑ https://www.safeworkers.co.uk/employee-relations/avoiding-the-bait-at-work/
- ↑ https://www.safeworkers.co.uk/employee-relations/avoiding-the-bait-at-work/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201510/14-signs-psychological-and-emotional-manipulation
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2017/06/how-to-de-escalate-an-argument-with-a-coworker
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2017/06/how-to-de-escalate-an-argument-with-a-coworker
- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/active-listening/
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2017/06/how-to-de-escalate-an-argument-with-a-coworker
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/backhanded-compliment
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2011/02/arguing-is-pointless.html