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So a sexy nude has landed in your messages or DMs—it’s pretty exciting, but now what? If you’ve received a nude from someone you’re into, you’re going to need the perfect response to make them feel special. In this article, we’ll share a variety of great responses so you can get that spark between you blazing.
The Best Way to Respond to Nudes
To make the sender feel good, quickly respond with a compliment. Say something like “Wow…you look SO hot,” or “You are totally gorgeous.” If the photo turns you on, tell them that, too.
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Community Q&A
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QuestionWhat if you are too nervous to send one back?Emily723847Community AnswerIf it doesn't feel right to send back a nude, just reply to the sender with a kind message stating that you're shy and that you're not interested in doing that.
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Being specific in your compliments can boost the other person’s ego even more. A compliment can be made even better if you can tell them what they want to hear.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- If you’re a minor and get a nude from someone you don’t know, tell an adult you trust immediately, and block the sender.
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References
- ↑ https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/anthropology-in-practice/the-psychology-of-sexting/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202303/the-impact-of-sexting-on-relationships-and-mental
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201911/what-type-of-people-send-explicit-photos
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-the-mind-heals-the-body/201412/the-stress-sex-connection