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Are you in a relationship with a guy that's just starting to blossom? Sometimes, men can be afraid to reveal their true feelings. But if you pay attention to how he treats you and how he acts around you, you can pick up on the signs that he loves you, even if he's afraid to say it. Keep reading to discover how he feels, plus expert tips on how to get him to open up more.
This article is based on an interview with our dating coach, Candice Mostisser. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- If you catch him staring at you a lot but he looks away when you make eye contact, that could be a strong sign that he's falling for you.
- When he runs hot and cold, seeming eager to hang out with you one minute and pushing you away the next, he might be afraid of the feelings he has for you.
- Acting nervous and fidgety around you could indicate that he loves you but he's afraid you might hurt or reject him.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
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- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22521-philophobia-fear-of-falling-in-love
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- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22521-philophobia-fear-of-falling-in-love
- ↑ https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/5-easy-ways-to-communicate-better-in-your-relationships/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/201409/12-steps-getting-someone-open
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/setting-healthy-boundaries-in-relationships.htm