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Public speaking is something many people are afraid of and that fear even has a name—glossophobia. Fortunately, with the right preparation and a few calming techniques, you can overcome your anxiety and speak confidently in front of any group, no matter the reason or subject.

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Preparing What You Will Say

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  1. You may have to give a speech or presentation for school or work, or you may be invited to speak on a subject you are an expert in or are passionate about. Keep the reason for your speaking engagement in mind as you prepare so that your focus remains on what you want to teach the audience or what you hope to accomplish with your speech.[1]
    • If you have to speak in front of a group as a school assignment, carefully review the rubric and guidelines to ensure that your speech meets all of the requirements.
  2. In order to keep the audience engaged, it’s important to cater your speech to them. Whenever possible, find out the ages, backgrounds, and education levels of the audience members. Think about their beliefs and values as well as their attitude toward the topic you’re speaking about so that you can tailor your speech toward these specific people to make it more effective.[2]
    • Talk to various audience members beforehand to get an idea of what’s important to them and why they’re attending your speaking engagement.
    • For instance, giving a speech to a group of middle schoolers may require simpler language and more humor, while speaking in front of a military audience might require more decorum.
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  3. Keep your goal in mind as you craft your speech. Depending on the circumstances, you may need to research your topic before you begin writing. Then, create an outline that covers all the main points you want to convey. Include facts and a few statistics as well as personal anecdotes and even a joke or two if you think they would be received well. Write out your entire speech on notecards so you can rehearse it.[3]
    • Remember why you're speaking about this topic and make sure all parts of your speech focus on your overall goal or call to action.
    • A really engaging opening, or hook, is key. Share a story, statistic, or fact that will grab your audience’s attention and make them want to learn more.
    • Present your main points in a logical order so the audience can follow your argument. Use transitions to guide your listeners to the next idea.
    • End your speech with a provocative anecdote, fact, or call to action so that your audience continues to mull over what you said even after your speaking engagement is over.
  4. If your speaking engagement is a timed event, make sure your speech is within the limits. Practice your speech at a few different speaking speeds and time each delivery so you know if you need to cut anything. In most cases, shorter is better![4]
    • Generally, a 5-minute speech contains around 750 words while a 20-minute speech might have between 2,500 and 3,000 words.
  5. The key to speaking in front of large groups of people is to be prepared. While you can start practicing by reading what you’ve written down, the goal is to memorize your speech, or at least the key points, so you don’t have to rely on your notes when you speak in front of the audience.[5]
    • Don’t always rehearse from the beginning of your speech. Try starting at various places so you memorize each point independent of one another. That way, if you get sidetracked or lose your place, you’ll be familiar with picking up your speech in the middle.
    • You can practice your speech in front of a mirror, in the car, or while you’re gardening, shooting hoops, cleaning, shopping, or doing nearly anything else. This can help you memorize it better and give you ample time to rehearse.
  6. Visual aids can be very helpful for reducing nervousness. They give you, and the audience, something else to focus on. If it’s appropriate for the topic or event, feel free to create a slideshow, bring props, present posters, or otherwise share a visual aid that will help demonstrate your main points.[6]
    • Be sure to create a contingency plan in case your technology fails! Be prepared to give your speech without the visual components, if necessary.
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    Use visual aids. Visual aids are your friends. Even if what you’re discussing doesn’t necessitate aids, bring in something to display beside or behind you. When people are given something other than you to look at up there, you’ll feel more comfortable. However, don't look up at them yourself—keep an eye on your laptop or memorize what's on them so the presented information appears like a seamless extension of your brain.
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    Repeat yourself. Repeating key phrases once or twice is a great way to reinforce important points, and repeating audience questions will not only give you an extra minute to come up with a good response, but also ensure everyone else hears it, and gives the effect that you’re especially engaged.
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Calming Your Nerves

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    Admit you’re nervous. Don’t be afraid to freak out. Try clenching your fists, breathing deeply, and standing confidently to help curb your nervous energy and anxiety beforehand; doing so will subconsciously calm you down. It’s also not a bad idea to admit to the crowd up front that you’re nervous; it invites empathy and can make you feel more comfortable.
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    Redefine your audience. Don’t imagine everyone in front of you is naked or that they’re all just friendly pigs, because that’s absurd. Instead, change how you see them in a more meaningful way: maybe they’re fellow students who are all equally nervous because they’ll be presenting after you, or they’re a bunch of old friends whose vaguely familiar faces are watching you with nothing but support.
  3. If you’ve never been to the place where you’re going to speak, wondering what it will be like can ramp up your nervousness. Scope it out beforehand so you’re familiar with the location and can find your way to the restrooms, exits, and so on.[7]
    • This also allows you to plan your route ahead of time so you know how long it will take you to get to the venue on the day of the event.
  4. Looking good can make you feel good, so spend some time grooming yourself before your speaking engagement. Choose an outfit that flatters your body while still being appropriate for the event. Get a haircut or a manicure if you need a little boost of self-confidence.[8]
    • In most cases, well-fitting slacks and a button-down shirt are appropriate for speaking engagements. Alternatively, you could wear a suit and tie or a pencil skirt and a blazer. Ensure your clothes are clean and free of wrinkles.
  5. There’s no shame in being afraid of public speaking. Admit to yourself that you’re scared and acknowledge how you’re feeling. You can think, “My heart is racing, my mind is blank, and I have butterflies in my stomach.” Then, tell yourself that this is normal and the adrenaline that’s causing these symptoms indicates that you care about doing well.[9]
    • Turn that adrenaline into passion to help you demonstrate to your audience why what you have to say is important.
    • Visualizing yourself delivering a successful speech can actually help you perform better, so spend a few minutes imagining things going well.
  6. Adrenaline can make you feel jumpy and energetic. Before you deliver your speech, do a few jumping jacks, shake out your hands, or dance to your favorite song. You’ll feel calmer and more in control when you face the audience.[10]
    • You may even want to exercise the morning of your speech to help diffuse your nervousness and excess energy.
  7. You may have heard it a million times, but it’s true: deep, controlled breathing can actually help you calm down. Inhale for a count of 4, hold your breath for a count of 4, then exhale for a count of 4. Repeat until you feel your pulse slowing and you feel more in control.[11]
    • Avoid taking quick, shallow breaths, as this can lead to hyperventilation.
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Delivering Your Speech

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  1. Though it can be tempting to turn away from the people staring at you, facing the audience and speaking directly to them makes you appear more confident. Stand up straight and square your shoulders. You can do this![12]
  2. Thinking about all the people in the audience and their possible reactions can make you even more nervous. Instead, pretend that you’re talking to people you know and trust. This can help calm your nerves and give you more confidence.[13]
    • While it's commonly suggested to picture the audience in their underwear, this may make you even more nervous or uncomfortable. However, if you think it'll help you feel less anxious or intimidated, by all means, go ahead.
  3. Many people rush through their speech when they’re nervous or want to get it over with. However, speaking quickly will make it more difficult for the audience to follow what you’re saying. On the other hand, you don’t want to speak so slowly that the audience loses interest or thinks you’re talking down to them. Speak at the same rate you would when having a normal conversation with someone.[14]
    • If you want to get really technical, aim to speak 190 words per minute when delivering a speech.
  4. When you're speaking to a large group of people, it's essential to make sure everyone in the audience can understand what you're saying. Speak loudly, articulate your words clearly, and use an authoritative tone. Use a microphone, if you're provided with one. If not, aim to speak louder than you would in a normal conversation, but refrain from shouting.[15]
    • Say a few tongue-twisters before your speech to warm up. For instance, repeat "Sally sells seashells by the seashore" or "Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers."
  5. If you have friends or family members in the audience, look at them. An encouraging nod or smile can reassure you and give you a boost of confidence. If you don’t know anyone, pick a few people in the audience and make eye contact periodically. This can help the audience feel more connected to you while you’re speaking to them.[16]
    • If you're too scared to make eye contact, look at a point just above the audience member's heads. Avoid looking up at the ceiling or down at the floor, though.
  6. Avoid speaking in a monotone while standing stock still. In normal conversations, people move around a little bit, gesture with their hands, and show how they’re feeling with their facial expressions. You should do the same when you’re speaking in front of people! Display enthusiasm and show people why the topic is important to you with your body language and inflections.[17]
    • Show emotion to help the audience relate to you. Just avoid going overboard or getting so worked up that you can’t carry on. Aim to find a balance between professional and passionate.
  7. Silence, especially when it’s purposeful, is not a bad thing. Don’t feel as though you need to speaking every single second. If you get nervous or lose your place, pause for a few seconds so you can gather your thoughts. Also, if you make an important or provocative point, pause to allow the audience to absorb what you’ve just said.[18]
  8. Fumbling your words or skipping a key point can be super scary. Remember that everyone makes mistakes, and it probably seems like a much bigger deal to you than to the audience. Rather than freezing up or running off stage, take a breath and continue speaking. Don’t focus on your mistake—focus on getting the audience to understand your message, instead.[19]
    • No one is perfect, so you shouldn’t expect your speech to be perfect, either! Just be yourself.
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    Practice your speech several times to yourself in front of a mirror. Act like you are talking to another person. When you've done that a few times, give your speech to a few family members or friends. Have them tell you if there is anything you could improve upon.
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    You can pretend that you are speaking to a group of friends. Take a deep breath, smile, and continue talking. Keep your shoulders back, as this will make you seem more confident and relaxed.
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    Stop telling yourself that you can't do it. You can do it! Prepare what you're going to say and practice it repeatedly. If you're prepared, you'll be fine. Take slow, deep breaths before you give the talk and just keep reminding yourself that you can do this. While you're talking, don't look at the whole crowd. Focus on one person, or just stare at a point at the back of the room.
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This article was co-authored by Gale McCreary and by wikiHow staff writer, Sophia Bell. Gale McCreary is the Founder and Chief Coordinator of SpeechStory, a nonprofit organization focused on improving communication skills in youth. She was previously a Silicon Valley CEO and President of a Toastmasters International chapter. She has been recognized as Santa Barbara Entrepreneurial Woman of the Year and received Congressional recognition for providing a Family-Friendly work environment. She has a BS in Biology from Stanford University. This article has been viewed 339,224 times.
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Speaking in front of a large group of people can be nerve-wracking, but with a little preparation, you should feel more confident. Practice your speech until you know it by heart, which will make your delivery smoother. If you can, spend a few minutes in the venue before your speech so you can get comfortable with the atmosphere of the room. It’s perfectly natural to be nervous before public speaking, but if it’s getting to your head, try doing some jumping jacks, doing a little dance, or taking some deep breaths to prepare yourself. When you get on stage, just pretend you’re talking to your friends. Don’t worry if you make a mistake or stutter, since everyone does sometimes. Just correct yourself and continue with your speech. For more tips from our Public Speaking co-author, including how to write and edit your speech, read on!

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