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Seducing a woman you're attracted to doesn't all come down to your physical appearance. Engaging her mind with intellectual conversations, flirty debates, and witty jokes can go a long way in making yourself more attractive to her. If you want to stimulate a woman's mind the next time you're flirting with her but you're not sure how to actually go about doing it, don't worry. We've compiled a list of tips you can use to mentally seduce your crush.
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- Seduce her with your humor and wit. Tell funny personal stories, point out silly situations when you’re together, or make callbacks to previous convos.
- Be excited about her passions and ask her to teach you about them. She’ll be attracted to you because you’re genuinely interested in her.
- Start a friendly debate to stimulate her intellectually. Pick a silly, non-controversial topic and let the flirty challenge ensue.
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- ↑ Michelle Jacoby. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 7 September 2021.
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- ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/relations/strengthen-your-relationship-with-these-deep-questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend/