How to Tell Your Friend Good Night

Co-authored by Madeleine Flamiano Reviewed by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW

Last Updated: July 2, 2024 Fact Checked

Want to give your friend a heartwarming message right before bed? A thoughtful and touching note is great way to bond at the end of the night. Here, we'll share a ton of sweet and funny texts that you can use as inspiration. Try these out to make your friend's night and remind them how special they are!

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“Rest up, buddy!”

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Keep it short and simple. Since you both already have a tight bond, it’s totally fine to send a brief sign-off. It’ll still make your friend smile and appreciate that you took the time to say goodnight.
- “Sleep well, bestie!”
- “Hit the sack, chica!”
- “TTYL, friend for life!”

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“I’m so lucky to have you in my life! 🍀”

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Express a ton of gratitude. It’s important that your buddy knows that you’ll never take them for granted. Before you go to bed, let them know that they have a special place in your heart.^{[1]
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- “I think of you when I count my blessings! 🙏”
- “I hit the jackpot getting you as a friend! ⭐”
- “I’m thankful for you every single day!”

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“Get some sleep so you can take on tomorrow! 💪”

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Make sure to motivate them. Inspire your friend by telling them that they’re capable and strong. When you believe that they’ll accomplish their goals, they’ll really look forward to the next day.
- “Remember, you’re a beast! 🐺 Now get some rest!”
- “You’re the hardest worker I know! 💼 That’s why you need shut-eye.”
- “Even superstars like you need a solid 8 hours!”

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“Before you go to bed…just know that you’re a gift! 🎁”

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Praise your friend for their skills and talents. Make them feel valued and cherished before they end their evening. Tell them why they’re so impressive and point out what makes them so irreplaceable.
- “You’re the smartest person I know! 🧠 I bet that brain needs rest!”
- “You give the Energizer bunny a run for his money! But you still need sleep. 🔋”
- “You’re so giving, seriously. Goodnight, you absolute angel!”

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“You get all the credit for our amazing friendship! G’night!”

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Talk about their awesome traits as a buddy. Praise them for all the ways they’ve contributed to your life. Remind them that you have an incredible connection because they’re so thoughtful and reliable.
- “You have the kindest heart! Thank you for being you.”
- “You’re the best listener! I hope you rest well!”
- “Wow! You’re so deep. I’ll have so much to ponder tonight!”

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“Here’s a pic of a cat in PJs to end your night right! 🐈”

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Send them a funny meme, pic, gif, or vid. Give your friend a good laugh before they head to bed. They’ll end their day on a high note and love your silly sense of humor.
- “Look at this poor sleepy panda! What a mood. 🐼”
- “Are you brave enough to go to bed after seeing ‘It’? 🤡”
- “Listen to ‘bossy cat’! She wants you to rest and stay healthy!”

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“I’ve got a poem for you! Roses are red, I’m going to bed! 🌹”

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Tease your friend with a goofy goodnight message. If your buddy is down for sarcasm or dry humor, play around with them. Get a little sassy since you two know it’s all in good fun.
- “We’ll probably meet up in our dreams since we talk 24/7! 😝”
- “If you have any nightmares, report them to me! I’ll handle it. 😈”
- “Unless you want to talk to a zombie, you should probably wish me goodnight!”

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“Remember...doctors say 7-9 hours of sleep is best!”

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Chat about self-care with your favorite person. Talk about your friend’s sleep habits and ways that they can improve their health. Talk about any tips or tricks that helped you get a better night’s rest.^{[2]
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- “You gotta ditch the coffee after 3 P.M., okay?! Trust me.”
- “Let’s be accountability buddies and set a sleep schedule!”
- “Turn your phone off! You should avoid bright lights 2-3 hours before bed! 💛”

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“Even when you’re far away, I think about you every day! 🌙”

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If your friendship’s long distance, discuss what keeps you close. Tell them that you’ll always feel close to them and that you’ll stay in touch. Thank them for chatting and reassure them that you still adore them.^{[3]
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- “No matter the distance between us, I’m always here for you! 🗺️”
- “It’s hard to be apart, but I love our texts! 😊 Hope you get good sleep!”
- “You light up my life, even when you’re on another continent! Rest well!”

10

“‘Sleep is the most beautiful experience in life.’ – W. C. Fields”

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Put your friend in a thoughtful mood with a famous quote. Find your favorite saying from a celebrity or historical figure that’s related to sleep. Share it with your buddy for a unique sign-off–they might even steal it for themselves!
- “‘Let her sleep, for when she wakes, she will shake the world. – Napoleon’”
- “‘Man is a genius when he is dreaming.’ – Akira Kurosawa”
- ”‘A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures.’ – Irish Proverb”

11

“Do me a favor? 🥺 Go to bed, or I’ll be chatting all night!”

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Tell your friend you wish you could talk forever. Remind them that it’s hard to resist going to bed because you both have the best convos. When you insist that you both should go to bed, your buddy will appreciate that you’re promoting good sleep.
- “If I didn’t have work tomorrow, I’d keep texting! 😭”
- “Promise me you’ll go to bed at a decent hour, too! 😝 I’m counting on you!”
- “Okay! Enough memes! We have to be responsible adults and sleep.”

12

“Too…tired. 😵🥱👋😴”

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Let your buddy know when you’re exhausted. Be honest and admit when you’re out of energy. That way, they won’t take it personally if you are less responsive or go MIA.
- “I love you, but I can’t keep my eyes open one more minute! 😫”
- “Crashing! 💥 You’re always the last person I text!”
- “You couldn’t pay me to stay awake! I’m wiped out.”

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“Sweet dreams! See you tomorrow!”

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Say you’re excited if you two will catch up soon. If you both have fun plans, then remind them to rest up so they’re prepared for what lies ahead.
- “We have a big day ahead of us! 🤩 Get some rest!”
- “Catch some 💤! I’m taking you to brunch in the morning!”
- “Okay, partner in crime! Be ready for me to pick you up at 3!”