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Poseurs can be found in various settings, whether they’re pretending to like a certain show or faking a whole suite of skills. In every case, a poseur pretends to be something or someone that they aren’t, usually to get attention. You can usually identify a poser from the way they act, dress or talk. Some posers will put their efforts towards developing a fake social media personality, and seeing through this can be a bit trickier.

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Look for excessive showing off.

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  1. Look for stickers, apparel, and other items that relate to what they claim to love. For instance, posers within the car scene will cover their cars in stickers as a cry for attention.[1]
    • If that backpack or t-shirt from a popular comic book is brand new, but the wearer claims to have been a fan forever, you might have a poseur on your hands.
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See if they’re just following a popular trend.

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  1. Check what they claim to be obsessed about, whether it’s a band, a TV show or just a specific kind of identity. Ask yourself if this is a popular trend, especially if it’s a new trend.
    • A perfect example of this is the “geek” phenomenon. If you go back a couple of decades, it wasn’t at all cool to be a geek; it meant you were obsessed with a particular hobby or facet of pop culture. Geekdom is now more mainstream, and some posers will claim they’re geeks just to fit in.[3]
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Test their knowledge.

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  1. While the best way to deal with a poser is to simply ignore them, there might be situations where you decide to confront them. If you want to be sure they’re a poseur, simply test them on what they claim to know so much about.
    • Poseurs are so focused on the way they come across to people that they don’t usually know what they’re talking about. They’ll repeat things that are common knowledge, but dig a bit deeper and you should be able to expose them.
    • For instance, some poseurs might act like they’re really into cars. If you want to test them, just get them to pop the hood and tell you about what their car’s got. If they stumble, or try to get out of it, you might have found a poser.[6]
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Check up on their social media followers.

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  1. This will artificially inflate their social media accounts, making it seem like they have a large following. To get to the bottom of this, look at the relationship between your suspected poseur and their fans. You can also check the profiles of their followers; if the profiles are empty, they’re likely not real followers.
    • Social media is essentially a more complicated, high tech conversation. If there are no comments or likes on the suspected poseur’s posts, it’s a one way conversation and you might be dealing with a poseur.[7]
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Pay attention to how often they post.

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  1. A poseur might try and use their social media accounts like a brand or company: minimizing effort and maximizing their following. Someone who’s truly passionate is more likely to post as the mood strikes them; maybe they come across something particularly funny or important they really want to share.
    • If the suspected poseur runs their social media on a tight schedule, your suspicions likely have some truth to them.[9]
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  • Try talking to the person you’ve identified as a poseur. You might be able to help them be themselves rather than someone who tries to get attention.
  • Before getting angry at someone for being a poseur, try to understand where they’re coming from. They’re probably not trying to make you mad on purpose.
  • The best way to deal with a poseur is to ignore them. They crave attention, and will move on once they realize they can’t get it.
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This article was reviewed by Seth Hall. Seth T. Hall (ICF ACC, CLC, and MNLP) is a Certified Life Coach and Founder of Transformational Solutions, a Los Angeles-based life-coaching company that helps people achieve their toughest goals, find their own voice, and think outside the box. He has been a life coach for over 10 years, specializing in personal development, relationships, career and finance, and wellness. He has helped his clients break the negative cycles in their lives and replace them with a positive, proactive mindset. Seth believes that everyone has the potential to live a fulfilling and rewarding life, and works passionately to help them reach their full potential. With a deep understanding of how our minds work and the power of positive thinking, he encourages his clients to find their unique paths in life and find success on their own terms. He is a certified master practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, a featured co-author for WikiHow, and co-author of "The Mountain Method”, “The Happy Tiger”, and “The V.I.S.I.O.N.S. Program”. This article has been viewed 159,074 times.
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