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Do you feel like your mother is constantly belittling you or criticizing you? Maybe she also wants to control your every move or tell you what you can and can’t do. All of these traits could indicate that your mother has narcissistic personality disorder, or NPD. We’ll walk you through some of the common phrases that a narcissistic mother might use, general traits of narcissism, and techniques you can apply to deal with her behavior.
This article is based on an interview with our psychotherapist Kelli Miller. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Narcissistic mothers will often criticize you to make you feel bad and rely on them more.
- Some narcissistic mothers may also stir up drama with emotionally-charged statements to make you feel bad.
- Many narcissists will use gaslighting phrases to make you doubt your own reality or downplay their own behavior.
Steps
How Can You Deal With a Narcissistic Mother?
Expert Q&A
Tips
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Narcissistic personality disorder is a personality disorder that needs to be diagnosed by a mental health professional.[7]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201602/10-signs-narcissistic-parent
- ↑ https://adaa.org/learn-from-us/from-the-experts/blog-posts/consumer/women-narcissistic-parents
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201602/10-signs-narcissistic-parent
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201602/10-signs-narcissistic-parent
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201602/10-signs-narcissistic-parent
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662