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Let’s face it—starting a conversation with a guy you’ve just met or don’t know very well can seem really intimidating. You want to have a fun and engaging conversation that keeps a guy interested and avoids any awkwardness. So where do you start? Fortunately, there are so many different conversation starters for you to choose from. Here’s a list of the best talking points for a meaningful conversation with a guy that’ll leave you feeling confident and ready to start chatting!
Interesting Topics to Talk About
- Learn more about a guy's passions by asking about his hobbies and interests.
- Share a funny story to connect with him.
- Ask him what his favorite restaurant or meal is.
- Inquire about what he studies, does for a living, or aspires to do.
- Give him a chance to open up about his loved ones.
Steps
Example Conversation Starters
Expert Q&A
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Tips
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If you're at a social event or in a business environment, try asking the guy what his plans are for the weekend or break the ice by commenting on why you are currently at the same social event, as this can help him open up to speaking with you.Thanks
Warnings
- Avoid asking too many questions at once. The last thing you want in a conversation is to feel like you’re in the hot seat or being interrogated.[11]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.regain.us/advice/how-to/how-to-keep-a-conversation-going-with-a-boy-to-get-to-know-him-better/
- ↑ .https://oureverydaylife.com/the-10-different-types-of-humor-12103365.html
- ↑ https://dailynexus.com/2019-05-23/5-ways-food-brings-people-together/
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a31346416/questions-to-ask-your-crush/
- ↑ https://herway.net/topics-to-talk-with-guys/
- ↑ https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/why-compliments-make-us-feel-so-good-how-get-better-ncna1062546
- ↑ https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/why_is_social_media_a_beneficial_relationship_building_tool
- ↑ https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2019/10/28/astrology-in-the-age-of-uncertainty
- ↑ https://www.allure.com/story/zodiac-signs-elements-fire-earth-air-water