This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Emily Schmitt. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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Coffee Meets Bagel is a dating app for people looking for long-term, meaningful connections, but who are tired of the typical swiping most dating apps use. Instead of endless swiping, CMB uses a smart algorithm to find and present you with potential matches based on your dating preferences! This wikiHow article will give you an overview of Coffee Meets Bagel's best features, teach you how to create an account, and list some pros and cons of the app.
How Coffee Meets Bagel Works
Set up your CMB account by adding photos and filling out profile prompts. Like any profiles you’re interested in talking to, and if it’s a match, send them a message. Purchase beans (CMB’s in-app currency) to gain access to special features, such as liking people on the Discover page and turning on read receipts.
Steps
What Are Coffee Meets Bagel's Best Features?
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The Suggested Section. This section is the heart of CMB's platform.[1] Every day the smart algorithm will present you with potential matches, which CMB calls "bagels."
- You can choose to “Like,” “Pass,” or “Priority Like” any of these matches.[2]
- You can send messages with your likes to help you stand out if you really like a certain profile.
- If a match likes you back, your messages will show up in your Chat section.
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Icebreakers & Chats. Once you and a bagel have liked each other, it’s time to get chatting. In order to chat, both parties must confirm interest in each other by liking the other’s profile.
- Chats will expire after seven days to encourage you to get face-to-face with your match.
- If you don’t feel comfortable meeting up so soon, ask for their contact information over chat.
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The Discover Section. While CMB will present you with matches every day, if you want to find other people, check out the Discover section. This page allows you to explore profiles that might not have been presented to you in your Suggested section.
- Use the Advanced Filters feature to filter profiles based on location, age, sex, or similar interests.
- You can try to connect with these people using beans (the in-app currency) or by becoming a subscriber.
How Do I Get Started?
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Create an Account.
- Download the CMB app, which is available for iOS or Android.
- When you first open the app, you’ll be prompted to create a new account.
- You have the option to link a pre-existing Facebook account which will save you time by pulling all your photos and personal information.
- You can also create an account from scratch via a phone login process.
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Choose Your Photos. Upload at least three photos to your profile, the more the better. Select photos that show off your personality and your interests. Here are some good examples:
- A photo of you and your pet
- A photo of you smiling
- A photo of you doing a hobby you enjoy, like hiking, reading, etc…
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Fill Out Your Profile Prompts. Make sure you are detailed and specific in your description so potential matches get a sense of the real you. Coffee Meets Bagel will provide you with some prompts for filling out the details:
- “I am…”
- “I like…”
- “I appreciate when my partner…”
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Create Icebreakers. CMB will ask you to provide three fun facts about yourself, which won’t be displayed on your profile, but might be used later as icebreakers between you and bagels.
- These can spark conversations and might be the difference between connecting with others or not, so pay special attention to these facts.
Pros & Cons of CMB
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Pros
- Most features can be used from the free version of the app.
- Because messaging requires both parties to like and match, there is no unwanted contacting or solicitation.
- CMB's chill atmosphere with intuitive and easy-to-use features creates a truly kind community of people.
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Cons
- You can only match up to 5 times a day, which may make the dating process feel a little slow.
- Some advanced features require payment or subscription.
- The gender ratio is uneven, with the split being about 60% women and 40% men.[8]
Expert Q&A
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References
- ↑ https://coffeemeetsbagel.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360019599254-What-is-Coffee-Meets-Bagel-
- ↑ https://www.vidaselect.com/coffee-meets-bagel-review-what-you-need-to-know/
- ↑ https://coffeemeetsbagel.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360017441574-What-are-beans
- ↑ https://coffeemeetsbagel.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/categories/360001489753-Premium-Subscription
- ↑ https://healthyframework.com/coffee-meets-bagel-cost/
- ↑ https://coffeemeetsbagel.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360021076153-What-features-are-available-in-a-CMB-Premium-Subscription-
- ↑ https://coffeemeetsbagel.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360021076153-What-features-are-available-in-a-CMB-Premium-Subscription-
- ↑ https://healthyframework.com/dating/review/coffee-meets-bagel/