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Texting or DMing someone you don’t know well can feel like a minefield—especially when they start throwing out messages like “WYLL.” What exactly does this cryptic DM mean, though, and how are you supposed to respond to it? We’ve covered everything you need to know, including how to respond (and whether or not you should just leave the person on read).
Things You Should Know
- WYLL stands for “What You Look Like.” It’s often used to request a photo from a stranger or acquaintance, or to playfully poke fun at someone.
- Use WYLL if you’ve recently started chatting with someone online and want to know what they look like. You can also use WYLL to tease a friend.
- Use your best judgment when replying to a WYLL message. Feel free to send a pic if you’d like, or set clear boundaries if you’re feeling uncomfortable.
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