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The perfect love message shows that special someone that you really care for them, but what should it say? Whether you’re looking to show your spouse or significant other how much they mean to you, we’ve got you covered. We’ll walk you through the most romantic words to send your partner, whether through text or in an old-fashioned love letter, with this complete guide on what is the best love message.

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“I just can’t stop thinking about you.”

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  1. It’s hard not to enjoy hearing that someone else has been thinking about you, so give your partner a sign that you have been. Write something like:
    • “You’ve been running through my mind all day and night.”
    • For him: “You’re really a special guy—I’ve been distracted all day with thoughts of you.”
    • For her: “Hey beautiful—just letting you know I’m thinking about you now, as I always am.”
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“Thank you for being you.”

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  1. In romantic relationships, it’s important to thank your partner both for being who they are and for all the little things they do. This element of gratitude can drive you both to put more effort into the relationship. Write something like:[1]
    • “You treat me so well—thank you, my love.”
    • For her: “Thanks for driving me to work yesterday. I’m really grateful to have you as my girlfriend/wife.”
    • For him: “I loved what you made us for dinner last night, handsome. Thank you.”
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“You’re the most beautiful person I’ve ever met.”

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  1. Studies have shown that compliments light up the same parts of the brain as receiving money does—words can literally feel as good as gold.[2] Show your partner how special they are in your eyes by giving them some kind words of affection. Shoot them a text or send them a note saying something like:
    • “You’re brilliant, intelligent, and wise—just talking to you makes so happy.”
    • For him: “Something I admire about you is that you’re a deeply responsible man. You take of yourself, others, and me so well.”
    • For her: “I’m constantly amazed by how kind and perceptive you are. It’s an honor to be able to call you my girlfriend/wife.”
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“Meeting you has been my greatest blessing.”

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  1. Love can transform us into different, better people. Telling your partner that it was they who allowed you to grow can feel extremely deep, profound, and touching. Tell them what their entrance into your life has meant for you:
    • “In all my life, you’re one of the best things that’s ever happened to me.”
    • For him: “I never hoped that I’d meet a man as decent and beautiful as you, and I never expected how much this love would change me.”
    • For her: “You’re the woman that’s inspired me to be a better version of myself, just so I can try to deserve you.”
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“I don’t ever want this to end.”

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“The best is yet to come, my love.”

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  1. Even if you and your partner have been happy together, showing them that you know the future is going to be even better gives them a sense of optimism and joy. It showcases your commitment to the relationship, so say something like:
    • “When I think about the future with you, I know things are going to be somehow, impossibly, even better than now.”
    • For him: “I want to find out all the things that make you happy and give them to you, handsome.”
    • For her: “Loving you has been the most rewarding work of my life, and I can’t wait to get even better at it, my angel.”
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“Just thinking about our first date at the movies.”

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  1. Show your significant other that you treasure the memories you’ve built together by sending them a sweet reminder of one. Your message might look something like:[6]
    • “Remember when we went to the beach? I don’t think I’ve ever been happier than when I got to watch the sunset with you.”
    • “Just passed by that Italian place we went to for our first date. I was so nervous! And then, so, so happy.”
    • “Do you remember our first night together? It felt electric, and I don’t think that feeling has ever gone away.”
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Send a romantic quote.

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  1. Poets and other writers have written about love for thousands of years, so borrow from the best. Shoot your partner a text or send them a note saying something like, “Hey, I just read this, and it made me think of you.” Then, include a quote like the following ones:[7]
    • “Who, being loved, is poor?” —Oscar Wilde
    • “We loved with a love that was more than love.” —Edgar Allan Poe
    • “Everything, everything I understand, I understand only because I love.” —Leo Tolstoy
    • “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” —Emily Brontë
    • “I look at you and I would rather look at you than all the portraits in the world.” —Frank O’Hara
    • “In case you ever foolishly forget: I am never not thinking of you.” —Virginia Woolf
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Lisa Shield
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This article was co-authored by Lisa Shield and by wikiHow staff writer, Nihal Shetty. Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. Lisa has been featured in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan. This article has been viewed 45,277 times.
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