This article was co-authored by Collette Gee and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Collette Gee is a Relationship Coach, Certified Violence Prevention Specialist, the Author of "Finding Happily… No Rules, No Frogs, No Pretending." Focusing on creating meaningful romantic relationships, Collette uses her experience having worked in the mental health industry as a psych nurse to conduct relationship coaching, online courses, and workshops to help women and men find lasting love. Prior to Collette's coaching business, she worked in the mental health field as a psych nurse which has helped inform her practice to create and sustain happy, healthy meaningful romantic relationships. Her work has been featured on TLC, London Live, the Huffington Post, and CNN.
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If you’ve been crushing on someone for a while, you’re probably thinking about asking them out. While saying “Wanna go out?” is fine, putting a little thought and effort into your question can make your crush feel extra special. There are a lot of unique ways you ask your crush out that will make them swoon and (hopefully!) say yes.
Here are 14 cute and original ways to pop the question to your crush.
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QuestionHow should I act when I ask someone out?Collette GeeCollette Gee is a Relationship Coach, Certified Violence Prevention Specialist, the Author of "Finding Happily… No Rules, No Frogs, No Pretending." Focusing on creating meaningful romantic relationships, Collette uses her experience having worked in the mental health industry as a psych nurse to conduct relationship coaching, online courses, and workshops to help women and men find lasting love. Prior to Collette's coaching business, she worked in the mental health field as a psych nurse which has helped inform her practice to create and sustain happy, healthy meaningful romantic relationships. Her work has been featured on TLC, London Live, the Huffington Post, and CNN.
Dating CoachThe best thing to do is to be direct. Try not to hesitate, and don't be so roundabout that the person doesn't know what you're asking. -
QuestionWhat's a mistake to avoid when I ask someone out?Collette GeeCollette Gee is a Relationship Coach, Certified Violence Prevention Specialist, the Author of "Finding Happily… No Rules, No Frogs, No Pretending." Focusing on creating meaningful romantic relationships, Collette uses her experience having worked in the mental health industry as a psych nurse to conduct relationship coaching, online courses, and workshops to help women and men find lasting love. Prior to Collette's coaching business, she worked in the mental health field as a psych nurse which has helped inform her practice to create and sustain happy, healthy meaningful romantic relationships. Her work has been featured on TLC, London Live, the Huffington Post, and CNN.
Dating CoachOne common mistake I see is asking someone out, but not actually having a plan of what you want to do on the date. Make sure you have something in mind so you can follow through. -
QuestionHow long should I talk to someone online before I ask them out?Collette GeeCollette Gee is a Relationship Coach, Certified Violence Prevention Specialist, the Author of "Finding Happily… No Rules, No Frogs, No Pretending." Focusing on creating meaningful romantic relationships, Collette uses her experience having worked in the mental health industry as a psych nurse to conduct relationship coaching, online courses, and workshops to help women and men find lasting love. Prior to Collette's coaching business, she worked in the mental health field as a psych nurse which has helped inform her practice to create and sustain happy, healthy meaningful romantic relationships. Her work has been featured on TLC, London Live, the Huffington Post, and CNN.
Dating CoachSpend a little time getting to know someone before you try to meet in person. Have maybe two or three conversations first so you make sure you're not wasting time going out wiht someone you don't really like.
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If your crush says no, that’s okay! Take it in stride and move on to someone else.Thanks
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- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/g5992/most-creative-ways-ask-out-your-crush/?slide=3
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- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/a33436/how-to-ask-guy-girl-to-homecoming/
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/g5992/most-creative-ways-ask-out-your-crush/?slide=9
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- ↑ https://teenage.com.sg/campus/9-non-creepy-ways-to-ask-your-crush-out-on-social-media/