This article was co-authored by Connell Barrett and by wikiHow staff writer, Christopher M. Osborne, PhD. Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach."
This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources.
This article has been viewed 147,661 times.
So, how do you go from being “desired” to being “irresistible” in the bedroom? While a few tweaks to your planning and technique can definitely help, don’t discount the importance of a confident attitude. This article lists a bunch of helpful strategies you can bring into the bedroom in order to drive a man wild. After all, you don’t want to finish the night with him wanting more; you want to finish it with him desperate for more!
Steps
Become a Dominatrix with this Expert Series
Expert Q&A
-
QuestionWhat sort of compliments do men prefer?Connell BarrettConnell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach."
Dating CoachMen usually like compliments about their career success, physical fitness, and confident personality. Often you can break the ice and start a conversation by complimenting someone.
Video
Tips
References
- ↑ https://www.datingadviceguru.com/men-consider-great-sex-7-sex-tips-women/
- ↑ https://lovestrategies.com/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men/
- ↑ https://lovestrategies.com/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men/
- ↑ http://www.sirc.org/publik/smell_attract.html
- ↑ https://www.datingadviceguru.com/men-consider-great-sex-7-sex-tips-women/
- ↑ Connell Barrett. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 24 September 2019.
- ↑ https://lovestrategies.com/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men/
- ↑ https://www.datingadviceguru.com/men-consider-great-sex-7-sex-tips-women/
- ↑ https://time.com/2859728/science-of-sexy-5-things-that-can-make-you-irresistible/
- ↑ https://popculture.com/sex-relationships/news/what-men-want-in-bed/
- ↑ https://www.datingadviceguru.com/men-consider-great-sex-7-sex-tips-women/
- ↑ Connell Barrett. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 24 September 2019.
- ↑ https://popculture.com/sex-relationships/news/what-men-want-in-bed/
- ↑ https://lovestrategies.com/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men/
- ↑ Connell Barrett. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 24 September 2019.
About This Article
Reader Success Stories
-
"I am not confident in bed, but this article showed me it is about what you CAN do, not what you CAN'T do."