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You’re enjoying sex with your man and want to let him know how much you like his manhood, but how do you compliment such a sensitive area? There are a lot of phrases you can use to let him know he’s got the goods, and praising his privates will boost his confidence and build trust between you (which makes sex more fun and enjoyable for both of you!). If you’re ready to make his day, read on! We’ve put together a thorough list of ways to compliment a guy on his manhood that he’ll love to hear.
Complimenting a Guy's Penis
Talk about how big it is and playfully "wonder" out loud if it will fit. You can also compliment its shape or let him know how much the girth impresses you with a compliment like "I love how thick it feels." Boost his confidence by letting him know that you need him (and his dick) immediately.
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QuestionHow can I effectively communicate with my partner in the bedroom?Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSWKelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.
Relationship CoachFirst, you should know that an open conversation about preference is not only okay but necessary. Pleasure within a relationship should always be mutual, and you should always keep in mind that your partner is not a mind reader. If it's not working for you, say something. That is how you can be fully present and satisfied, and how can you have your partner fully present and satisfied? First, begin with the fact that discussing sexual preference is not any different from discussing any other kind of preference within a relationship—it helps the two of you understand each other a bit better. As much as it may sound overwhelming, these discussions are something that needs to be part of your relationship for a healthy and satisfying sexual bond. -
QuestionIs it safe for me to kiss my husband's penis?Community AnswerOf course! That can increase the amount of pleasure given during foreplay, too.
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No matter which compliment you choose, be genuine. A jokey tone or overacting might make it seem like you’re just humoring him, which could increase his self-consciousness and affect his performance.Thanks
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- ↑ https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/7-compliments-your-guy-would-secretly-love/photostory/58342266.cms?picid=58342269
- ↑ https://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/sex/advice/g768/turn-ons-for-guys/?slide=25
- ↑ https://pandagossips.com/posts/1241
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a33429/things-all-guys-want-to-hear-in-bed/
- ↑ https://www.magnetizeyourman.com/5-compliments-to-give-a-guy-that-make-him-crave-you/