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When you first start dating a guy, you might feel like you should automatically have a deep emotional and physical connection. The truth is, it usually takes time to work up to being really intimate. Also, since men are often taught to hide their emotions, it can be especially hard for them to be vulnerable. Luckily, our guide has tips to help the two of you open up to each other so you can enjoy the close, secure bond you're looking for.
This article is based on an interview with our marriage and family therapist, Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC. Check out the full interview here.
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