This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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If a woman has the wrong impression of you, you can change her mind about you by showing her the person you truly are. Be a great listener and do thoughtful things for her. If you're hoping to have a romantic relationship, express your feelings for her. You might find that you can change her mind just by improving communication.
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QuestionWhere can I meet a new woman?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachYou can meet a new woman anywhere and everywhere. Be open to it every day of your life. There are a lot of attractive people around you. For example, you may find them at the supermarket, bookstore, or in a subway car. -
QuestionHow do you introduce yourself to a woman?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachIf you want to introduce yourself to someone, you should not enter their life abruptly. Give them enough space and distance. You can make eye contact with them and say hello in a soft tone. Let them feel safe and then open up. Offer a direct compliment or start a conversation with something in the situation. For example, if you are shopping for fruits and vegetables, you can say that you are moving to all-organic and ask them if they are doing the same. -
QuestionHow do I change a woman's mind about me if she spends time with me, but is also spending time with someone else?Community AnswerTell her how you feel. Let her know that you have serious feelings for her and you want to be in an exclusive relationship. If she needs time to think about it, give her that time. If she says she's not interested in a relationship with you, let her go and find somebody who is.
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- Never think that you can change a woman's mind by being physically or verbally aggressive. Intimidation, threatening, and bullying are abusive.Thanks
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- ↑ https://practicalpie.com/how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you/
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/240750838_On_the_role_of_humor_appreciation_in_interpersonal_attraction_It's_no_joking_matter
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evidence-based-living/201611/proven-ways-change-someones-mind
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ https://practicalpie.com/how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you/
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ https://www.pnas.org/doi/abs/10.1073/pnas.1508932113
- ↑ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/i-dont-get-why-girls-dont-like-me-10-possible-reasons-why-theyre-not-that-into-you/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/creating-in-flow/201105/5-ways-change-someones-mind
About This Article
To change a woman’s mind about you when you’re in the friend zone, wait for a quiet time to talk to her so you’re both relaxed and won’t be distracted. Then, tell her that you like her and you want to start a romantic relationship. This might be a lot for her to take in so give her time if she needs to think about it. If she says no, try not to take it personally, since there are plenty of other women who will be better for you. For more tips, including how to try to understand what a woman thinks about you, read on!
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