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Want to give your partner a relaxing, soothing, yet sensual massage? A steamy massage session is a great method of foreplay, but it’s also a good way to show your appreciation for your partner and get closer to them at the same time. Even if you aren’t a professional massage therapist, you can still give a stellar massage by following our tips. Keep reading to help your partner relax and unwind with a massage they won’t forget.
Things You Should Know
- Dim the lights and burn some incense to set the mood for the massage.
- Get undressed with your partner to make the massage more sensual (and to make your partner feel more comfortable).
- Use massage oil or lotion to work your palms across your partner’s body, focusing on areas like the neck, shoulders, and legs.
Steps
Community Q&A
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QuestionHow can I create a relaxing environment?Janice TiepermanCommunity AnswerSet up your massage space with soft, warm lighting, and play soft, ambient music in the background. You can also diffuse some relaxing essential oils, like bergamot, lavender, chamomile, or frankincense. In general, try to set everything up so your partner feels really cozy.
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QuestionCan this massage be erotic?Diamond Tantric MassagesCommunity AnswerSensual massages can also be erotic massages (sometimes called Tantric Massages) and arousal can be a benefit. This can sometimes lead to enhanced intimacy and physical release. With a partner, this can move beyond arousal and into sex but for a true Tantric experience, it is better to flow with the sensations.
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QuestionWhat is the difference between a regular massage and a sensual massage?A regular message is typically given by a massage therapist and it's usually used to ease tension and stress. A sensual massage is usually given by a partner, it's slower, more romantic, and intimate.
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Stress hides in the muscle where it attaches to bone. Take care in these areas. Work along the bone, not across it.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.sleepfoundation.org/bedroom-environment/light-and-sleep
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- ↑ https://www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/facts/sex/intimacy-and-relationships/
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/benefits-of-massage
- ↑ [v161216_b01]. 10 December 2019.
- ↑ Marty Morales. Professional Massage Therapist. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://carrington.edu/blog/tips-and-techniques-for-giving-a-great-back-massage/
- ↑ [v161216_b01]. 10 December 2019.
- ↑ https://carrington.edu/blog/tips-and-techniques-for-giving-a-great-back-massage/
- ↑ https://www.health.harvard.edu/pain/sore-back-try-a-massage
- ↑ https://www.aiam.edu/massage-therapy/benefits-of-foot-massage/
- ↑ https://www.nwhealth.edu/blog/benefits-of-massage-therapy/
- ↑ https://nios.ac.in/media/documents/beauty/Lesson_1_Body_Massage_prac.pdf
- ↑ https://carrington.edu/blog/tips-and-techniques-for-giving-a-great-back-massage/
- ↑ [v161216_b01]. 10 December 2019.
- ↑ [v161216_b01]. 10 December 2019.
About This Article
To give your partner a sensual massage, start by rubbing a generous amount of massage or cooking oil in your hands to warm it up. Spread the warmed oil on your partner’s back and shoulders and start rubbing their muscles. Use the base of your palm to massage their back in long, slow strokes, pushing with firm and even pressure. Switch to your thumbs for extra pressure if you find a spot with extra tension. Make sure to ask your partner what feels good, and listen to signs that they might be feeling pain or discomfort. For more tips on giving a great massage, like how to get creative with your technique, keep reading!
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