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Wondering how to maximize your sexual energy to manifest the future you want? Your sexual energy is a valuable and powerful resource, and there are plenty of easy ways to take advantage of this energy to convert it into something else or maximize your sexual pleasure. In this article, we’ll break down what your sexual energy is, how you can transmute it (i.e. convert it into something new), and various ways you might enhance and explore your sexual energy.
Steps
What blocks sexual energy?
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Misaligned chakras can block up your sexual energy. Any kind of unwelcome energy can throw off your chakras and mess with your sexual energy. Whether it’s a toxic relationship that’s draining your energy, or a traumatic experience keeping you from being present when you’re engaging in sexual activity, getting back in a positive, healthy headspace can unblock your sexual energy.[18]
- Meditate, do yoga, and pray (if you’re religious) to revive your spiritual energy and get back in touch with your truest self.
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Maintaining a negative relationship with sex can block sexual energy. If you’re masturbating or having sex compulsively, you don’t appreciate or respect your body, or you use sex to numb uncomfortable feelings, you may be creating a barrier between you and a healthy sex life. Resolving any underlying issues you have with your relationship to sex can unblock the energy you’re trying to access.[19]
- Excessive porn consumption can also block up your sexual energy.
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What we call Tantric sex today is actually quite new. In ancient India, Tantra was actually a series of rituals practiced by Hindu and Buddhist priests, but it didn’t have anything to do with sex.[22]Thanks
References
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- ↑ https://www.sciencehistory.org/stories/magazine/the-secrets-of-alchemy/
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/topics/mindfulness/meditation
- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/24332-masturbation
- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/17906-meditation
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-narcissism/202307/a-psychological-approach-to-the-law-of-attraction
- ↑ https://rightasrain.uwmedicine.org/mind/stress/why-deep-breathing-makes-you-feel-so-chill
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/manifesting
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/click-here-for-happiness/202209/4-science-based-tips-to-manifest-your-dreams
- ↑ https://www.healthywomen.org/your-health/sexual-health/why-women-dont-have-orgasms
- ↑ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/abstinence-and-outercourse
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/how-do-life/201912/identifying-your-secret-desires
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201603/know-yourself-6-specific-ways-know-who-you-are
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201603/know-yourself-6-specific-ways-know-who-you-are
- ↑ https://www.academia.edu/5551347/Womens_masturbation_Experiences_of_sexual_empowerment_in_a_primarily_sex-positive_sample
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/2014/04/pornography
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/human-beings-being-human/202305/how-to-feel-less-emotionally-drained-and-regain-your-energy
- ↑ https://www.health.state.mn.us/people/sexualhealth/characteristics.html
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/topics/lgbtq/orientation
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4477452/
- ↑ https://esoteric.msu.edu/VolumeV/Unleashing_the_Beast.htm