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If you’ve got a hankering for a drink but you’re worried about how you’ll feel going to a bar by yourself, don’t be. Nothing screams “I have more confidence than you could possibly imagine” than hitting your local haunt by yourself and enjoying an adult beverage, so don’t sweat it for a second. With that said, there are certainly a few guidelines and recommendations that can make hitting your local bar solo a lot more interesting and enjoyable. Read on to learn everything you’d ever need to consider before hitting the town on your own.
Things You Should Know
- Don’t talk yourself out of a good time. There is absolutely nothing embarrassing or strange about going to a bar by yourself.
- Arrive a little bit before the crowd is going to show up (if they’re going to show up at all) to secure priority seating at the bar.
- Chat it up with the bartender if it’s slow, or hang out with the other solo drinkers nearby. You can also just read a book or hang out on your phone.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
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If you’re a gal drinking alone, you may run into a few incessant guys who can’t take a hint. Do not hesitate to ask the bouncer or bartender for help if some guy doesn’t seem to understand “Please leave me alone.”[14]Thanks
Warnings
- While many people will put a coaster over their drink while they grab a smoke or hit the bathroom, you’re safest off taking your drink with you if you’re alone. This way, nobody can mess with your drink.[15]Thanks
- If you're going to a bar with the intent to get intoxicated because you're stressed out, try looking for other coping mechanisms, such as meditation or exercising to get rid of the pent-up energy.Thanks
Expert Interview
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References
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- ↑ https://www.gq.com/story/how-to-talk-to-strangers-in-bars-a-guide-for-millennials
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