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Even with so much technology designed to help us connect with other people, it’s still surprisingly easy to lose touch with your friends. Fortunately, there are things you can do to stay connected and involved in each other’s lives, even from miles away! To help you do it, we’ve compiled a handy list of ways to keep in touch with your friends. Whether you're long-distance or just have busy lives, we’re sure you’ll find something here to help you reconnect and stay in touch.
The Best Ways to Keep in Touch with Friends
- Play video games together.
- Share a virtual dinner or cocktail hour.
- Stream a movie together.
- Send each other surprise gifts.
- Start a challenge or virtual club together.
- Send a sweet text during a special event or occasion.
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QuestionHow do I avoid the "elephant" in the room as much as possible?Community AnswerYou could hangout with other friends around the room. Just act as if that "elephant" isn't even there. Don't let that person ruin your day or night.
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QuestionHow should I start a note when trying to catch up with old friends?Community AnswerYou could start by saying something like "I was just thinking about..." and then bring up a fun memory the two of you shared.
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QuestionWhat if they are in a different country?IsobelCommunity AnswerYou could write letters, text, email, or use social media. Just because your friend is in another country doesn't mean you can't stay connected!
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Don’t feel offended if your friends aren’t super available. They may just be busy, but you can try catching up with them some other time.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/18/smarter-living/how-to-maintain-friends.html
- ↑ https://introvertdear.com/news/how-to-stay-in-touch-with-long-distance-friends-as-an-introvert/
- ↑ https://www.pearson.com/ped-blogs/pearsonstudents/2020/04/10-ways-im-using-technology-stay-touch-friends-quarantine.html
- ↑ https://introvertdear.com/news/how-to-stay-in-touch-with-long-distance-friends-as-an-introvert/
- ↑ https://advicefromatwentysomething.com/how-to-stay-in-touch-with-long-distance-friends/
- ↑ https://www.themuse.com/advice/the-secret-to-staying-in-touch-with-longdistance-friends
- ↑ https://www.themuse.com/advice/the-secret-to-staying-in-touch-with-longdistance-friends
- ↑ https://www.npr.org/2022/03/14/1086433752/stay-connected-long-distance-friends
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/18/smarter-living/how-to-maintain-friends.html
About This Article
To keep in touch with your friends, text or call them when you think of them and ask how they are. For example, you could text your friend something like, “I just heard our song on the radio and it reminded me of you. How are you doing?” Or, if your friend’s obsessed with a certain actor, you can start a conversation by asking if they’ve seen their latest movie. Then, you can ask if they’re free for a call or video chat sometime. Or, schedule to meet up if you live nearby. If your friend is on social media, like and comment on their posts to stay connected. You can also use other online services to connect with your friends, like playing games together or setting up a shared playlist on Spotify. For more tips from our co-author, including how to catch up with several friends at once, read on!
Reader Success Stories
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"Thanks, I can't wait to invite all my friends to the movies! Even my far-away friend."