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If you really like a girl, you're probably brainstorming all the ways you can get her to want you back. Texting is a surefire way to build a connection with someone, but it can be hard to know what to say sometimes (especially when you're into someone). Thankfully, this article is here to help. Read on for a complete list of ways to deepen your connection so that she ends up falling for you.
Best Ways to Drive a Girl Crazy over Text
Send her a flirty compliment, like "Your smile is so beautiful. That lipstick you were wearing last night looked amazing." If you'd like to make your conversation a little saucier, try a steamy text like "You've been on my mind all day. 😏" or "Looking forward to seeing you tonight. 😈"
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QuestionHow do you compliment a girl over text?Imad JbaraImad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
Dating CoachOver text, compliment a girl's character, sense of humor, or sarcasm. A lot of people compliment looks, but women typically get a lot of compliments on their looks. They'll be less responsive to those types of compliments. Tell her that she's funny or smart. -
QuestionHow do you flirt with an older woman over text?Imad JbaraImad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
Dating CoachWait to tell her your age until after she gets to know you. Don't bring up age until she does. If she asks how old you are, try to tell her a joke to avoid answering. You might say, "Old enough to be awesome" or "Old enough to know what I want in a woman." You don't want to lie to her, but it's okay to give a joke answer so she she has time to get to know you.
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Go ahead and text her within 24 hours of meeting. Though some people swear by playing hard to get, it can actually do you a disservice. If you're really into a girl you recently met, text her to get things going!Thanks
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When you're getting to know her, stick to fun texts to keep her interested. It's easy to misread tone in a text, which can derail the conversation. So, keep it fun.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/202103/what-makes-good-flirt
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g3/flirty-text-message-ideas
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g3/flirty-text-message-ideas
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g3/flirty-text-message-ideas