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Do you want to turn up the heat in your love life with some spicy texts? You can easily make a guy horny over text using lots of suggestive detail, eye-catching visuals, and leading questions. Crafting awesome sexts can take some practice, but with the tips below, you’ll become a master in no time. Whether you’re hooking up, casually dating, getting serious, or seeing one another long-distance, sexy texting is an exciting form of foreplay that will strengthen the connection between you and your guy!
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QuestionShould I ask for consent before sending nudes or sexual pictures?NicoTop AnswererYes. It's very important to make sure your partner is okay with sending nudes. If you send sexual photos to someone who didn't ask for them or say they wanted them, this is called unsolicited nudes and is never okay. Getting consent for sending nudes doesn't have to be boring. Try asking your partner, "How would feel about me sending you nudes?" or "Would it be alright if I sent nudes?" Consent is very important.
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- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/great-self-care-setting-healthy-boundaries/
- ↑ https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/anthropology-in-practice/the-psychology-of-sexting/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/why-compliments-are-powerful
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview.17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-digitally/201601/what-your-sexting-really-reveals
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/insight-is-2020/201703/can-sexual-attraction-become-too-strong
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/love-digitally/201802/does-sexting-have-benefits-your-relationship
- ↑ https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-do-people-sext-and-who-is-likely-to-do-it/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/202104/what-really-turns-men-on
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202303/the-impact-of-sexting-on-relationships-and-mental
- ↑ https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-do-people-sext-and-who-is-likely-to-do-it/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202303/the-impact-of-sexting-on-relationships-and-mental
- ↑ https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/anthropology-in-practice/the-psychology-of-sexting/