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When you value someone in your life, you want them to know that they're special. Luckily, there are several ways to do this, from kind gestures to direct words of encouragement. Read on for more ideas on how to make someone feel important.

1

Address them by name.

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  1. People like hearing the sound of their own name, and it makes them feel special to be addressed so specifically. When greeting someone, say their name instead of a simple 'hello." If you have a question, compliment, or even just a comment to share with them, preface or follow what you say with their name.[1]
    • Try something like, "Hey Sam! Nice to see you today" or "I really appreciated your input in the meeting today, Louis."
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Compliment them.

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3

Listen to what they have to say.

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  1. Focus on what this person has to say. Put your phone away and make eye contact with them while they speak. Practice active listening techniques, like restating what they've said in your own words, to fully understand them.[4] [5]
    • Try nodding along as they speak and smiling to encourage them to keep talking.[6]
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Give them a gift or make them something.

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  1. You don't even have to get something super expensive or over-the-top. Buy their favorite chips and bring them over next time you see them. Pick up a fun mug you know they'll love when you're on vacation.[10]
    • Make them feel extra special by getting a gift that's specific to them. If your friend loves to draw, get them a pack of drawing pencils or a sketchbook.
    • You can also make them a gift if you're crafty. If you're a great cook, make them a meal.[11]
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  1. Sarah Schewitz, PsyD. Licensed Psychologist. Expert Interview. 11 March 2021.
  2. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sociability/201407/5-ways-make-anyone-feel-special

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Sarah Schewitz, PsyD
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This article was co-authored by Sarah Schewitz, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Madeleine Criglow. Sarah Schewitz, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist by the California Board of Psychology with over 10 years of experience. She received her Psy.D. from the Florida Institute of Technology in 2011. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology practice helping couples and individuals improve and change their patterns in love and relationships. This article has been viewed 61,067 times.
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