This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Eric McClure. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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For some people, it’s immediately obvious that some kind of spark is missing. For others, it may be years before they realize the weeks are starting to blend together as the routine fully settles in. Healthy relationships tend to calm down as two people get to know one another super well, so rest assured that this may not be a bad thing. Things just tend to cool off after the honeymoon phase is over, so don’t despair that your relationship is in trouble just yet. Regardless of why the fun is missing, there are plenty of ways for you and your main squeeze to reignite things!
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QuestionHow can I keep my relationship interesting?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachSpend quality time together. You can read poetry to each other or watch movies on Netflix together. Share inspirational quotes or songs that have sentimental value for both of you. -
QuestionWhat is the foundation for a successful relationship?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachLet your partner know that you can understand their emotions and physical needs. Make them feel that you are building something together and there is something to look forward to in the future.
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- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
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- ↑ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/20/start-low-and-go-slow-how-to-talk-to-your-partner-about-sex
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