7 Ways to Make an Aries Man Miss You (Your Guide to Keeping an Aries Man Interested)

Co-authored by Tara Divina and Madeleine Criglow

Last Updated: November 22, 2024

Aries men are notorious for enjoying the chase. Though they may get bored easily, you can keep Aries coming back for more without playing games. You'll just have to embrace everything that makes you unique and different from the rest to keep him guessing. Read on for some tips on how to get this fiercely independent sign to miss you.

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Remain strong and independent.

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Aries men are looking for a partner that doesn't need them.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} As you get to know the Aries man you've got your eye on, make plans with your friends and do interesting things without him. As much as you enjoy your time together, keep your schedule jam-packed with things that don't involve him in addition to your dates. It will make your time together more special, and he'll be super intrigued by all of the cool things you do in your own time.^{[2]
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- This will give the Aries man space to be his own person, too. They've usually got a lot going on in their busy schedules, from classes to plans with friends, and they want to be with someone who has a similar lifestyle.^{[3]
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Follow your dreams.

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Aries are impressed by strong will and determination. Stay focused on your goals for the future, like going back to school, running a marathon, or writing a novel. The more challenging, the better. When you spend time with the Aries man you like, talk about all the dreams you're currently striving to achieve. He'll be dazzled by your ambition and will likely spend his time away from you thinking about all the amazing things you're going to do one day.^{[4]
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- If he asks what you've been up to lately, take the opportunity to tell him about how you're meeting your goals. Say, "I've been so busy working on grad school applications. I'm trying to get my MFA in poetry!"

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Support his goals.

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An Aries man wants a partner that respects his ambition. Ask him questions about his plans for the future, and show your support as he strives for each one. As you get to know each other, follow up on his goals are going and tell him that it's only a matter of time before he achieves them. He'll grow to miss your encouragement when you're away.^{[5]
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- Maybe he's been working on a big thesis presentation. When it comes time for his presentation, ask if you can attend as a part of the audience.
- Perhaps he's a singer in a band. Ask how recording his demos have been going and if he plans on releasing his album anytime soon.
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Flatter his talents.

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Compliment him for his many skills and abilities. Aries men are usually pretty proud of their accomplishments, and they're looking for a partner that's proud of them as well. When you're talking and texting, let him know how impressed you are by him.^{[6]
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- Text him something like, "I just checked out that article you wrote! I love your use of sensory detail" or "Your points in class today were stellar! They've got me thinking about philosophy in a whole new way."

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Engage in fiery debates.

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A little conflict keeps an Aries man interested. When you're talking to the Aries you fancy, don't shy away from topics like politics, philosophy, and religion. Share news stories about the subjects and ask him for his opinion. Even if you agree, bring up counterpoints in the spirit of a good debate. Stay respectful and listen to his point of view, but don't be afraid to disagree. Most likely, he'll be attracted to your confidence and faith in your own opinions.^{[7]
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- Text him a link to an article you read along with the message, "I'd love to hear your thoughts on this. I've got a ton!"
- Though Aries men usually share many qualities, everyone is different. If he's not responding well to the debate or he doesn't want to talk about personal subjects like religion, it's best to respect that and choose something else to talk about.

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Plan spontaneous and adventurous dates.

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An Aries man may get bored easily. To make him miss being around you, keep your dates interesting. Instead of the usual stuff like dinner and a movie, opt for exciting and thrilling date ideas like a challenging hike or a day trip to a new city. He'll like the fact that you don't want to stick to a predictable routine, and your daring nature will keep him super excited to plan more dates with you. Other date ideas include:^{[8]
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- Going to a drive-in movie
- Spending the day rollerblading, skateboarding, or biking
- Swimming and having a picnic at the nearest river

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Be honest about who you are.

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Aries are known for their blunt honesty. They appreciate that quality in others. Avoid pretending to be something that you're not to impress an Aries man. It'll likely do the opposite, as what he's really seeking is a partner that is just as real as him. Be true to yourself, even if it means disagreeing with him sometimes. Your genuine nature will help you stand out, and he'll want to learn more about all of your one-of-a-kind qualities and opinions.^{[9]
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- Maybe he texted you saying he wasn't a fan of a certain band. If you like that band, say so. An Aries will usually appreciate another point of view.
- Make your response funny with something like, "I'm not a huge fan either. I've just seen them in concert 5 times and own all of their albums."

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