This article was written by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Megaera Lorenz, PhD. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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Whether you’re trying to take things to the next level with your crush or already in a budding relationship, it can be a tricky balance to show interest without coming off as needy or clingy. Luckily, there are things you can do to show that special person how much you care while also giving them space. In this article, we’ll talk you through a few things you can do—and what pitfalls to avoid.
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach, John Keegan, founder of The Awakened Lifestyle. Check out the full interview here.
How to Not Be Clingy While Showing Interest
Give them sincere, specific compliments, but don’t go over-the-top. Feel free to text them first, but don’t text them too often. Respect their boundaries and give them time to themselves. Do things you enjoy outside of the relationship, as well.
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