This article was written by Julianne Cantarella and by wikiHow staff writer, Kira Jan. Julianne Cantarella is a Dating Coach, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Social Worker, and the CEO and President of New Jersey's Matchmaker. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in helping women heal from a heartbreak and create healthy long-term relationships. Julianne created a comprehensive transformational date coaching program From First Date to Soulmate™ that has helped hundreds of women find love. She holds a Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) from Ramapo College of New Jersey and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Fordham University. Julianne has contributed to numerous media such as Your Tango Online Magazine, 24Seven Wellness Magazine, and Talk of The Town Magazine. She has also been featured as a relationship expert on CBS, iHeartRadio, and PBS “This Emotional Life Project.”
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Alright, he’s sent his flirty text and now it’s your turn. How do you keep him interested? We know it can feel like a lot of pressure to be cute, funny, and flirty over text. That’s why we’ve created a list of responses you can copy and paste to send to your guy—or customize to add your own personal style. Whether you’re looking to be adorable, sexy, sarcastic, or straightforward, read on for top texting inspiration.
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach and licensed social worker, Julianne Cantarella. Check out the full interview here.
Steps
Flirty Text Responses and Examples to Ask Someone to Stop Flirting
Expert Q&A
Tips
Warnings
- Block and report anyone who sends offensive or harassing messages, as it is a crime.Thanks
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References
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