How do you flirt over text? I'm so bad at it

WikiSkyDancer007
11/19/24 12:33pm
Ugh, I'm getting so flustered with this guy I've been texting lately! It feels like he has all the right things to say and is SO cute about it, and then all my messages just feel so blahhhh. I really like him and want him to stick around, but I need to up my text game ASAP. Please please please teach me the right things to say so he doesn't lose interest.

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Cher Gopman
Cher Gopman
Dating Coach
11/20/24 6:02pm
I think if you are trying to flirt through text messages, it's okay to use emojis here and there. You don't want to overuse them, because that'll come off as too eager. But you do want to use a little bit of an emoji just to show that it's lighthearted and fun. Make sure to avoid boring questions, and make sure you're always moving the conversation forward. You don't want to stick on one topic for too long. Keep the conversations fun and lighthearted so the person is interested to continue the conversation. Show that interest and that common ground and then it'll make the other person excited as well.
WikiMongooseChaser121
11/21/24 11:42am
A little bit of joking or teasing can help create a playful mood that's good for flirting
WikiStoatWatcher119
11/21/24 7:27pm
Overall, try to genuinely get to know the guy and connect with him. Ask him questions about himself, share sincerely about yourself, and sprinkle in a few compliments or cheesy puns if you can and you'll be good
WikiAxolotlRunner633
11/22/24 2:33pm
Text him about things that made you think of him throughout the day. Like if you were chatting about a cafe he likes to go to and you end up grabbing coffee from there, take a picture and let him know you were thinking of him. Just one or two a day will let him know that he's on your mind and that you've been paying attention to what he says. Don't overdo it though.
Anonymous WikiCaribou
Anonymous WikiCaribou
11/26/24 2:13pm
If guy really likes you & you like him then texts out the blew that he had a strange phone call last night his friend said she had feelings for him then he stops saying for a bit then months later he will come out & say sorry not spoken in a while had lot going on with kids,there mum plus the girl that say she likes him he says he don't want to hurt her feelings or wreck the friendship but still flirts with me alot so his he playing mind games to keep me close to him ??
Anonymous WikiBadger
Anonymous WikiBadger
12/10/24 7:54pm
can you guys mak a way to find out iif a guy likes me

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