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When was the last time you had a close, platonic encounter that left you feeling comfy and buoyant? Probably too long ago. Enter platonic cuddling, a form of intimacy that’s making waves in today’s touch-starved world. So much so, in fact, that there are cuddling clubs and even professional cuddlers ready to lend a hand to anyone who needs a moment of closeness. We’ll fill you in on what platonic cuddling is, exactly, and how it can benefit you. Then, we’ll offer valuable pointers on how to keep things casual while cuddling platonically, and the best positions to get your cuddle on.
Things You Should Know
- Platonic cuddling is any non-sexual, intimate, and intentional physical connection with someone you trust and feel comfortable with.
- Platonic cuddling releases beneficial brain chemicals, strengthens interpersonal relationships, and helps to improve your mental health.
- Keep your platonic cuddling casual by asking for consent, starting with small, brief touches, and setting and maintaining boundaries for the kind of touch you like.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
- ↑ https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/platonic-cuddling/
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- ↑ https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/platonic-cuddling/
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- ↑ https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/platonic-cuddling-a-treasure-trove-of-social-connection/
- ↑ https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/how-to-ask-someone-to-be-your-cuddle-buddy/
- ↑ https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/platonic-cuddling-a-treasure-trove-of-social-connection/
- ↑ https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/platonic-cuddling/
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- ↑ https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/m14aboutlastnight-20180312-h0xcxc.html
- ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/best-cuddle-positions/
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- ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/best-cuddle-positions/
- ↑ https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/platonic-cuddling-a-treasure-trove-of-social-connection/