This article was co-authored by Christina Jay, NLP and by wikiHow staff writer, Devin McSween. Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University.
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Your phone pings with a notification that you have a new match on Hinge. Based on their profile, it looks like you’d vibe, but what can you ask them to make sure you’re actually compatible? Whether you’re looking for a casual connection or a serious relationship, we’ve compiled a list of meaningful questions to help you get to know your match on any dating app. And because getting to know each other should be fun, we’ve also included some funny and flirty questions to spark a more light-hearted conversation.
Things You Should Know
- Ask about their ideal weekend and favorite shows and music to see if your interests and lifestyles are compatible.
- Find out if your values align by asking about their goals, passions, and role models.
- See if your physical connection is a match by asking about their ideal date and turn-ons.
- Spark a funny conversation with a game of “Would you rather.”
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References
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/want-to-be-close-to-someone-ask-these-36-questions
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/couples-thrive/202001/how-tell-youve-found-the-right-partner-you
- ↑ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0749597817300468
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/in-practice/201305/21-first-date-questions
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-date-questions/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rediscovering-love/201412/ten-important-questions-you-should-ask-potential-partner