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You just matched with someone on Hinge—how exciting! This is the first step towards a thriving relationship. But now what do you do? Starting a conversation on Hinge can be a piece of cake once you’ve Matched and know what to do. In this article, we’ll fill you in on all the best ways you can get and keep a conversation going on Hinge.

1

Like their profile.

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2

Comment on their profile prompt answers.

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3

Comment on a profile picture.

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7

Play a game of “would you rather.”

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  1. This simple yet fun game is a great way to learn more about your Match and get a better idea if you’re compatible. Not to mention that every answer can lead to a follow-up question, helping the conversation continue way past introductions! Here are some questions to get you started:[6]
    • “Would you rather control the future or change the past?”
    • “Would you rather have all the time or money you could dream of?”
    • “Would you rather spend the weekend watching Netflix or going out on the town?”
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8

Say “hi” and ask them about their day.

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  1. If you’re nervous about messaging your Match and don’t know what to say, that’s okay! Start by saying “hi,” telling them about your day, and then asking about theirs. Their response will give you something to branch off from, and before you know it, you’ll be having a full-on conversation. Check out some of these starters:
    • “Today just got a whole lot better when you commented on my pic. How’s life?”
    • “Hey! Your Like brightened this gloomy day. How are you spending this rainy day?”
    • “Hi! Matching with you has made this awesome day even better! How’s your day going so far?”
9

Share a joke.

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10

Stay positive.

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  1. Rather than focusing on what’s ailing you in real life right away, concentrate on the positives. This is your Match’s first time talking with you, so stay clear of complaints and aim for positivity.
    • Everyone has different experiences with dating apps, but why create a negative experience for someone else if you can help it?
    • Online dating can leave people feeling frustrated rather than hopeful, so help cultivate a good experience by being friendly even if things don’t turn out in the end.[7]
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Be respectful.

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Maya Diamond, MA
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This article was co-authored by Maya Diamond, MA and by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano. Maya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach in Berkeley, CA. She has 15 years of experience helping singles stuck in frustrating dating patterns find internal security, heal their past, and create healthy, loving, and lasting partnerships. She received her Master's in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies in 2009. This article has been viewed 341,209 times.
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