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You want to reach out to someone before their surgery, but finding the right words can be difficult. Whether you're calling, texting, or sending a card, a little positive encouragement can really make the person feel supported. In this article, we'll give you thoughtful phrases that someone going through surgery is sure to appreciate.

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"Wishing you luck with your surgery!"

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  1. They're probably worried and anxious about the procedure, so a quick message wishing them well can help them keep a positive attitude. Here are a few other things you could say:[1]
    • "Sending you all my best wishes for a speedy recovery!"
    • "Wishing you the best in health, wealth, and happiness."
    • "Hurry up and get well soon! 🙂"
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"You're in good hands."

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"The wish for healing has always been half of health." – Lucius Annaeus

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  1. Sometimes, there's the perfect quote for the situation. Look for uplifting quotes by the person's favorite author—they'll appreciate that you hunted down words of encouragement. If you're still stuck, consider using one of these great quotes:
    • “Tough times never last, but tough people do.” – Robert H Schuller
    • "You're in pretty good shape for the shape you are in." – Dr. Seuss
    • “Be strong because things will get better. It may be stormy now but it never rains forever.” – Evan Carmichael
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"Hurry up and get better—we need to hang out soon!"

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"I am praying for your healing recovery."

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"You're so special to me. I hope you feel better soon."

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  1. Emotions run high before surgery, but this can make it a good time to share how you feel. Talk about a special memory the two of you have or just let them know they're important to you. You could say:[10]
    • "We've been friends since we were kids, so I know you've totally got this!"
    • "I'm so thankful to have you in my life. Praying for a quick recovery."
    • "You're so caring and you always look after everyone else. Give us a chance to look after you!"
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"Looking forward to seeing you healthy soon."

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  1. It's easy to concentrate on the surgery itself, but talking about life after the surgery can relieve their anxiety. Point out how much better they'll feel or mention things you can do together.[12]
    • "Remember, each day brings you closer to a full recovery!"
    • "Rest and recover—the team can't wait to have you back."
    • "Hang in there, so we can hang out together soon!"
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    You should still be respectful because with their surgery they would have gone though a lot. You can send them a neutral text message "I heard you were not well", or mail them a letter and get them a small gift.
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    What kind of surgery is life-threatening?
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    Many can be. For example, heart surgery, brain surgery or cancer surgery.
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    Be kind. Introduce yourself and start bonding all over again!
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This article was co-authored by Peggy Rios, PhD and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Dr. Peggy Rios is a Counseling Psychologist based in Florida. With over 24 years of experience, Dr. Rios works with people struggling with psychological symptoms such as anxiety and depression. She specializes in medical psychology, weaving together behavioral health programs informed by empowerment theory and trauma treatment. Dr. Rios uses integrated, evidence-based models to provide support and therapy for people with life-altering medical conditions. She holds an MS and Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Maryland. Dr. Rios is a licensed psychologist in the state of Florida. This article has been viewed 574,248 times.
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