Q&A for How to Caress a Girl

If she's enthusiastically up for it, sure. It's best to start slow and gentle, even if she does consent. Start by gently grazing her breast and work up to using your mouth.

Be aware that someone in emotional distress may technically be able to consent to sexual touching, but they're likely in a really vulnerable state, so it's probably best to keep things non-sexual: try putting your arm around her shoulder, embracing her in a hug, or playing with her hair. Unless you've both been together for a while and have been intimate, it's best to avoid sexual touching, as she's likely feeling really vulnerable. Even if you have been together for a long time and have been intimate, check in with her as you go to make sure everything is OK, and immediately stop if she changes her mind.

If your partner turns her back, it could be her way of indicating she's not in the mood for cuddles right now, or she may just want you to touch her back! A nice shoulder rub is a great way to show your partner you care. For some people, the lower back is a sensitive area that, when touched, can result in arousal or ticklishness. Don't make assumptions here, though: if you're not certain what she means by turning her back to you, ask her!

First, make sure that she wants you to touch her breasts. You can simply ask her, "Is it okay if I touch you here?" You might want to start by touching her in other areas first, such as her arms, back, neck, and waist. When you do get to her breasts, make sure that you use a gentle touch. Don't squeeze, pinch, or handle her breasts in other rough ways. Try just stroking her breasts gently with the back of your hands and then hold them gently if she seems to like it.

Ask her first. If she says it's okay, then you can touch her there. If at any point she tells you to stop, stop immediately.

Yes, if it fits the mood as is something your partner enjoys.

Yes, but this would give the impression that you want to have sex, so if this is not your intention, it would be best not to. If the person seems uncomfortable and/or they tell you to stop, do so immediately.

It depends on where you live, but in most places the age of consent is around 16-18 years old.

You can tell him verbally, which is usually easiest and least likely to be misinterpreted, or with body language cues, such as taking his hand and placing it where you want it.

Talk to her. Tell her that you like what she is doing now but you are not ready for more.

You can try put your arm around her and resting it on her breast. You might also want to start kissing her and move your hand to those places while making out.