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    Is it okay to flirt with a guy?
    John Keegan
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
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    Definitely! Flirting is a great, healthy way to make a connection with someone.
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    How do you move things forward?
    John Keegan
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
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    Try switching up your usual routine! If you usually see her in a coffeeshop, offer to meet up at an art gallery sometime. While you're escalating things a little bit, you aren't putting any pressure on her to change your usual meeting place.
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    How do you get a guy's attention at a bar?
    John Keegan
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
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    Eye contact is always nice. Try smiling and waving at the guy. This way, you show you're open and want to know him better, making it safe for him to come over and say hi to you.
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    How do you test a guy to see if he likes you?
    John Keegan
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
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    The only way to know for sure is talking to him. You may fear rejection, but you have to look at it from another perspective. It's not really rejection, but more of a lack of connection between you two. Take a chance and find out for yourself!
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    How do you know if he's single?
    John Keegan
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
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    Flirt with him a little bit! Make a few probing comments, like "You're a really great listener!" or "You're really interesting to talk to!" Then, escalate by asking him to grab coffee with you, or something similar. If he's in a relationship, he'll probably mention it then.
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    My crush rarely texts me back! I really like him and want him to like me too. What are some good conversation starters?
    Maddie
    Maddie
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    It's not a good idea to try to force someone into liking you - that's manipulation. However, you can make conversation and see if he starts to like you. Try one or more of these conversation starters; "Did you hear [crush's favorite singer/band] [event, ex. released a new album]?" "Have you tried [new restaurant] yet? It's so good!" "Hey! I heard you like [sport your crush likes]? What'd you think of the game on [when the game was, ex. last night, Sunday, etc.]?"
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