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QuestionHow can you tie someone up with a belt?Shelby Devlin, MAShelby Devlin is a Sex & Intimacy Coach based in San Francisco, California. She has over 7 years of experience guiding individuals and couples in deepening their capacity for intimacy and pleasure. Shelby specializes in BDSM therapy, D/s, and fetish exploration. She earned an MA in Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University and is certified in the Somatic Method, an experiential therapy modality. Shelby is also a certified massage therapist (CMT) and an associate practitioner of Ortho bionomy. She has a 5-star coaching rating.
Sex & Intimacy CoachA belt is not a great tool to tie someone up with unless you have a very specific fantasy about someone taking off their belt and using it as a restraint. They're really difficult to manipulate, and there's no way to really secure them—the easiest way to manage it is by putting the male end of the belt through the buckle and pulling it tightly. Just make sure that you can slip your finger in between the binding and the person's wrist so you know it's not too tight! -
QuestionHow do you tie someone up safely?Shelby Devlin, MAShelby Devlin is a Sex & Intimacy Coach based in San Francisco, California. She has over 7 years of experience guiding individuals and couples in deepening their capacity for intimacy and pleasure. Shelby specializes in BDSM therapy, D/s, and fetish exploration. She earned an MA in Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University and is certified in the Somatic Method, an experiential therapy modality. Shelby is also a certified massage therapist (CMT) and an associate practitioner of Ortho bionomy. She has a 5-star coaching rating.
Sex & Intimacy CoachMake sure that you tie knots properly! Tie your knots in a bow rather than double- or triple-knotting them. -
QuestionMy friend tied me up tightly around my breasts. Will my breasts be damaged?Community AnswerNo, it's unlikely that you suffered any kind of damage. You may experience some bruising and soreness for a few days though.
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QuestionWhere is a good spot to tickle someone when he's tied up?Community AnswerThe neck, armpits, sides, and bottoms of the feet are typically good places to start.
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QuestionCould I blindfold the person being tied up?GamerthrCommunity AnswerIf the person is okay with it. You shouldn't do it without their permission.
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QuestionWhy don't you post instructions for how to escape after being tied up by friends?Community Answer
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QuestionCan I tie someone up in their boxers?Community AnswerAs long as they consent to being tied up, sure.
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QuestionHow can I persuade someone to tie/tape me up?Community AnswerJust ask them, calmly and respectfully. If they say no, accept it and ask someone else.
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QuestionWhat if they don't want me to tie them up?TamFCommunity AnswerThen don't tie them up!
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QuestionHow can I convince a girl to let me tie her up?Community AnswerYou shouldn't need to convince someone. If they aren't wholeheartedly into it, then you don't have full consent.
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QuestionWhat do I do if I like tying people up and getting tied up?James UrwinCommunity AnswerJust accept it, there are lots of people who like it too! There's nothing wrong with liking this, as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else while you're doing it.
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QuestionWhat are some other ways to tie someone up?Community AnswerThere are many ways you could tie someone up. One other way to tie someone up is to hogtie them.
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QuestionHow long would it take to escape being tied to a chair?James UrwinCommunity AnswerIt depends how strong you are and how tightly you are tied up. If you are tied too tight, try to use something like a file to cut the rope.
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QuestionCan I just use tape to tie and gag someone?Tom De BackerTop AnswererSure, just make sure you choose the right kind of tape. Look for a non-aggressive stick, and a skin-friendly material. If you tape the mouth, the tape should come off without tearing the skin or pulling out hair.
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QuestionHow do I tie someone up with duct tape?Community AnswerIt's not a good idea to tie someone up with duct tape, which adheres strongly to the skin, and can harm the person when it's removed.
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QuestionHow do I tie someone up using pantyhose?Community AnswerThe problem with stretchy material like pantyhose is that you can't control how tight it might get, which could pinch nerves or cut off circulation.
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QuestionHow do I get out of being tied up when doing an escape contest?Community AnswerExplain to the person tying you up that you don't want to be tied up. They should understand and if they don't, shout loudly so others come and help stop this from happening.
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