What's My Attraction Style?

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Flirting. Touches. Steaminess. Butterflies. Passion. Attraction. There are so many different aspects to our own desires, and to most of us, our own attraction style is a mystery.

We’re here to help you crack the case. Answer these simple questions honestly and go with your first instinct. And at the end of the quiz, we’ll tell you everything you need to know about your attraction style.

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Questions Overview

1. Pick a word to describe what excites you most:
  1. Tension
  2. Gentleness
  3. Passion
  4. Banter
2. What’s your dealbreaker?
  1. Someone who I don’t have a spark with.
  2. Someone who isn’t in touch with their emotions.
  3. Someone who isn't also a close friend.
  4. Someone who doesn’t match me intellectually.
3. How would you describe love?
  1. Thrill: A feeling of over-the-top passion and excitement.
  2. Magic: A feeling of wonder and connection.
  3. Calm: A feeling of home in another person.
  4. Deep: A feeling of intense understanding and connection.
4. Which of these flirtations would make you super into someone you just met:
  1. If they teased me playfully.
  2. If they talked to me for a long time at a party and gave me lots of attention.
  3. If they laughed at my jokes.
  4. If they complimented me on something unique and subtle, like the book I was reading.
5. Which one is you:
  1. Constant flirter, never in a relationship.
  2. Constant crushes, never acting on my feelings.
  3. Constant relationships, never single.
  4. Constant friendships, never meeting someone I would date.
6. What's most attractive to you?
  1. Sparks.
  2. Emotional sensitivity.
  3. Charm.
  4. Intelligence.
7. Are you a chaser, or do you like to be chased?
  1. I like to chase.
  2. I like to be chased.
  3. I like when it's clearly mutual.
  4. It depends on the person.
8. How do you draw others in?
  1. With confidence.
  2. With sweetness.
  3. With my eyes.
  4. With mystery.
9. How fast do you fall for someone?
  1. Immediately. I could fall just on a look…
  2. I fall fast, but it takes a few weeks at least.
  3. I take a normal amount of time. At least a few months.
  4. I take a long time, sometimes years.
10. I would never admit it, but I really just want:
  1. To feel alive.
  2. To melt into someone else.
  3. To never have to be alone.
  4. To finally meet someone who makes me feel less alone in my own head.

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How Can You Tell If Attraction Is Real?

So, you like this person. Actually, you’re head-over-heels for them! You think they’re cute, funny, and oh-so-amazing. But how do you know if they’re attracted to you too? Check out these common signs that someone likes or is attracted to you:

  • Prolonged eye contact. Chances are, if you catch them glancing at you or maintaining eye contact longer than usual, they like you.
  • Mirrored body language. Are they mimicking your behavior or copying your body language? If so, it’s likely a subconscious sign they’re into you.
  • Teasing. If they engage in playful banter and make jokes with you, they’re likely trying to build trust, intimacy, and connection with you.
  • Spending time with you. If they go out of their way to make plans with you or be near you, it isn’t an accident. They’re showing you that you’re a priority.
  • Remembering details. Do they bring up something you mentioned out of the blue? Do they remember little details about you now one else does? If so, it’s likely because they like you.
  • Physical contact. More often than not, an accidental brush of the hand or bump isn’t so accidental. This is their subtle way of trying to get closer to you.
  • Being vulnerable. A telling sign someone may be attracted to you is if they open up to you. They want you to know you’re someone they feel safe around.

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