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If you’re texting someone and they drop the heart eyes emoji, you may find yourself wondering what they’re trying to say. Are they flirting with you, or simply reacting to something you said? The heart eyes emoji can mean anything from, “You’re cute,” to “I really like what you just said,” so a lot of this will boil down to context. Don't worry—if you need help figuring out how to respond, we’ve got you covered!

Best Responses to the Heart Eyes Emoji

  1. Send the same emoji back to show that you agree.
  2. Respond back with a ❤️or 😻emoji.
  3. If you like them back, send them 😙 or 💋 emoji.
  4. Send a 🤜 or 🤗 if they're showing you some love.
  5. Shoot them a meme or a GIF.
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Send the same emoji back.

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  1. If you are reacting to something together or they just sent you the heart eyes emoji unexpectedly, you can simply mirror their text and send the same thing back. You can even add an extra 1-2 copies of the same emoji if you want to suggest you really like whatever the two of you are talking about.[1]
    • This is sort of like saying “I agree,” or, “Totally!”
    • If the two of you have been flirting a bit and you send the same emoji back, it’s sort of like saying, “The feeling is mutual,” or, “I like you, too.”
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Respond in kind with a different heart emoji.

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  1. Sending a very similar emoji that essentially means the same thing as 😍 is a good way to play it if you want to act like you’re on the same page without repeating the exact same thing. It’s different, but not so different that it will be confusing.[2]
    • Go for the cat version (😻) for something a little on the cuter side.
    • To say, “I feel and appreciate the love” try the 🥰 emoji.
    • The basic ❤️ (in any color) is a good option.
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Send a flirty emoji to signal that you're into them.

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  1. People often use the heart eye emoji to say, “You’re cute,” or something along those lines. They may be testing the waters to see how you’ll respond. If you want to send the signal that you’re really into them, give one of these a shot![3]
    • The couples emoji (👩🏾‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏾) is great if you want to say, “I love our relationship!” or, “We’d make a cute couple.”
    • The kissy lips (💋) or peck (😙) emoji is a little more intimate, but not too sexual.
    • The smirk (😏) is a good suggestive option that isn’t super aggressive.
    • You can send one of the more sexually-explicit emojis (🍑, 💦, 🍆, etc.) if you really want to shoot your shot. Be careful here, though. They may take it the wrong way if you’re crossing an established boundary and they’ve already said they don’t like you like that.
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Send a neutral emoji if they’re just being nice.

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  1. Keep it non-romantic with a friendly, but not-too-friendly emoji. Depending on the context, this may be more appropriate anyway. If the two of you are talking about a cool car or a fun movie and they send 😍 to say, “I love that,” this is probably the better way to go.[4]
    • The hands up (🙌🏽) or prayer hands (🙏🏻) emojis are great if you want to say, “I totally agree with you” or, “I appreciate the support.”
    • The flex emoji (💪🏿) is awesome if you want to brag about something.
    • Use the wide eyes emoji (👀) if you want to imply that you’re surprised or shocked.
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Send an appreciative emoji to say thank you.

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  1. People occasionally use the 😍 emoji as a way of trying to support people and lift them up. If you mentioned you were struggling with something and they send the heart eyes emoji alongside a supportive note, let them know you appreciate it![5]
    • The hugging face emoji (🤗) is a simple way of digitally embracing them to show you cherish them.
    • The fist bump (🤜) is good if you want to be as non-flirty as possible.
    • The relieved emoji (😌) is a solid option if you want to say, “Thank you for making me feel better.”
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Send a more complex response with a bunch of emojis.

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  1. Nobody said you have to use one emoji. If the two of you are commonly sending emojis back and forth, this is a safe and fun way to go. You can also craft an extremely unique message by doing this.[6] For example:
    • This combo: 👨🏼‍🚀 🚀🌙 might read as “I’m going to the moon” or “I’m out of this world!”
    • This: 🧑🏻‍❤️‍💋‍🧑🏼 could read as “I love and kiss you” on a literal level. This would be a really explicit, flirty option!
    • For a playfully (or potentially very straightforward) romantic response, you could send 👰 🤵 or 👸 🤴 to imply that the two of you are an awesome pair.
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Send a meme or gif back for something unexpected.

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  1. Most phones and instant messaging programs have a gif function. If the two of you are always sharing memes, you could send one of those in response. Depending on the context of the conversation, you could send a flirty, playful, or funny gif.[7] For example:
    • If you want to test the water a bit, you could send a gif of someone winking, or making a kissy face.
    • You could also send a gif of a hedgehog smiling, or a dog hugging their owner to keep things positive and friendly without being flirtatious.
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Be genuine and authentic with a little thank you note.

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Ask them out if you’ve been flirting back and forth.

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  1. Whether the two of you have been flirting for a while and you want to finally go for it, or they’ve been especially flirty this conversation and things are building up, the heart eyes emoji might be their way of suggesting they’re open to a relationship. If you like them and you think they like you too, you might say:[9]
    • “So, where are you and I going on our date this weekend?”
    • “What would we be doing if we were hanging out together right now?”
    • “You’re awesome. Would you ever want to go out?”
    • “You know, I really enjoy texting you. We should do this in person, some time.”
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Continue talking about what you were discussing before.

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  1. People often use emojis to react, so you can always keep the conversation going as if the heart eyes emoji wasn’t there at all. This is probably the right play if they sent multiple texts in a row, or they often use emojis to communicate feelings. In any case, go ahead and keep talking about whatever you were discussing before.[10]
    • For example, if you said something like, “I’m totally getting a chihuahua whenever I get out of here and get my own place,” and they say “I love those dogs” followed by a 😍 emoji, you could reply, “They’re so funny looking,” or, “I just giggle every time I see them. I totally need one.”
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Redirect the conversation.

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  1. If all they’ve sent you is a heart eyes emoji, you’ve got a ton of freedom in where you take the conversation. If your suspicion is that they’re flirting with you and you don’t really want to take things in that direction, deflect. Ask them an unrelated question, or say something that can’t be interpreted romantically.[11]
    • You could say something like, “Btw, everyone is going to that corner bar after work tomorrow if you want to come,” or, “Ugh, I’ve gtg. My mom is calling me downstairs.”
    • You might just ask them, “Random question, did we have any math homework?” or, “You see that new Marvel movie?”
    • You can always not reply for a while and wait for them to pick things back up. This is a little avoidant, and they may take it the wrong way if the conversation was going back and forth a lot, but it’s an option.
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