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So, you met a girl you like, and you’ve got her number—congrats! But whether you matched on a dating app, met through mutual friends, have already gone on a few dates, or none of the above, figuring out when to text her can leave you scratching your head. While the internet certainly has its fair share of texting “rules,” there are no specific guidelines you absolutely have to follow when it comes to messaging her (although there are a few she might appreciate you sticking to). Keep reading to help you decide whether or not to send that text right now.
This article is based on an interview with our dating coach, Kristina Mirgorodskaya. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- If you’ve just matched on a dating app, text her to break the ice and let her know you’re interested.
- Or, send her a message asking her out again if you’ve already gone on a date together.
- Try to text her 2 to 3 times per week if you’re casually dating.