This article was co-authored by Zach Pontrello and by wikiHow staff writer, Raven Minyard, BA. Zach Pontrello is an Embodied Leadership & Relationship Coach and the Founder of One Thought Growth & Sovereign Man Academy. His expertise lies in helping people build better relationships with themselves and with their partners, focusing on communication and honesty. Zach received his degree from John Carroll University.
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If you’ve recently started dating a guy, it's common to wonder if he thinks the relationship is casual or serious. We interviewed leadership and relationship coach Zachary Pontrello to find out how to tell if you’re special to him, and we'll share both the subtle and obvious signs. Read on to solve the mystery and find out what he really thinks, in case he doesn't say it directly.
Things You Should Know
- If a guy thinks you’re special, he’ll want to know everything about you. He’ll ask you open-ended questions and remember all the details.
- He’ll invite you to events, talk about you to his friends, and call or text you to stay in touch when you’re apart.
- He’ll value your opinion, respect you, and ask you for advice. He'll support you, be there for you, and help you when you need it.
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