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27 signs that he might be falling for you
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If you’ve recently started dating a guy, it's common to wonder if he thinks the relationship is casual or serious. We interviewed leadership and relationship coach Zachary Pontrello to find out how to tell if you’re special to him, and we'll share both the subtle and obvious signs. Read on to solve the mystery and find out what he really thinks, in case he doesn't say it directly.

Things You Should Know

  • If a guy thinks you’re special, he’ll want to know everything about you. He’ll ask you open-ended questions and remember all the details.
  • He’ll invite you to events, talk about you to his friends, and call or text you to stay in touch when you’re apart.
  • He’ll value your opinion, respect you, and ask you for advice. He'll support you, be there for you, and help you when you need it.
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He invites you to events.

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He shows genuine interest in your life.

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He learns your love language.

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  1. Don’t be surprised if he adjusts the way he shows his affection. Depending on your love language, he may spend more quality time with you or perform small acts of service. He could show you physical affection or verbally tell you how much you mean to him. Or, he may shower you with gifts to show he cares. He wants you to understand just how much you mean to him.[13]
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He seems jealous of other guys.

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  1. Even if your feelings for the other men are purely platonic, he won’t want you to talk about them. Though he may not say it aloud, he wants to keep you all to himself.[21]
    • Remember, there’s a difference between healthy jealousy and being controlling. Your partner should never make you feel like you can’t see your friends or that you should only ever be with them. Practice creating healthy boundaries by being vulnerable and communicating your concerns to your partner.
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This article was co-authored by Zach Pontrello and by wikiHow staff writer, Raven Minyard, BA. Zach Pontrello is an Embodied Leadership & Relationship Coach and the Founder of One Thought Growth & Sovereign Man Academy. His expertise lies in helping people build better relationships with themselves and with their partners, focusing on communication and honesty. Zach received his degree from John Carroll University. This article has been viewed 17,481 times.
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Updated: March 25, 2024
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