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There are many reasons you might want to start a new life, and many ways you could approach this decision. For example, perhaps you just ended an abusive relationship and have to figure out how to get started with a new, healthy, happy life away from your abuser. Perhaps you just don’t like where you live and want to move to find a new start in a new community. Regardless of your goals or reasons for change, it’s possible to start fresh if you think carefully, plan thoroughly, and check in with yourself to make sure you’re doing okay. Keep reading for an in-depth guide for starting life fresh.
This article is based on an interview with our certified life coach and professional astrologer, Tracey Rogers. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Before changing your life, consider your reasons for doing so: are you running away from something? or is it time for a new chapter to begin?
- Once you’ve decided what you want to change, create specific, achievable goals and set timelines by which to complete them.
- No matter what changes you make, be sure to tend to your social, financial, and mental wellbeing to be sure your life is as healthy and fulfilling as possible.
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Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do I kickstart my life again?Nicolette Tura, MANicolette Tura is an Empowerment Coach based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Through her work, Nicolette helps high achievers discover their true potential and grow personally. She recently founded the non-profit Celestial Wellness Network and started a musical project, The Feather and Stone. With over ten years of experience in nonprofit leadership and running her own wellness business, Nicolette combines her background in psychology, mindfulness, and psychophysiology to create profound change. Nicolette has hands-on experience as a Therapy Associate, and has worked with patients recovering from neurological disorders. She offers one-on-one coaching tailored to each client's needs, with options for short-term, transformative engagements. Her personalized coaching sessions help individuals break free from self-limiting beliefs and achieve their goals. She completed a 500-hour Registered Yoga Teacher certification and is a NASM Certified Corrective Exercise Specialist. She holds a BA in Sociology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Master’s degree is Sociology from San Jose State University.
Empowerment CoachBe honest with yourself about where you are. Think about what your highest vision for yourself is, as well as what challenges you're facing. What do you want your everyday morning wellness routine to look like? How do you think you should take time to unplug? Look at anything in your life that feels unbalanced, like your work or your relationship. That can help you decide what you need to change for the next chapter of your life.
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Warnings
- If you are a victim of domestic abuse and want to start a new life, contact trusted friends and family to help you. You can also call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for advice. It can be dangerous to leave an abuser and you will need people you can rely on. Make plans and keep yourself safe.Thanks
References
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- ↑ https://www.npr.org/2015/01/04/374603563/she-left-the-nightlife-behind-to-become-a-life-coach
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/what-matters-most/201303/what-is-your-best-possible-self
- ↑ https://www.nsw.gov.au/employment/getting-a-job/changing-careers/first-steps
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/4-7-8-breathing/
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/tips_for_keeping_a_gratitude_journal
- ↑ https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/caring-for-your-mental-health
- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/comfort-zone/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK53409/
- ↑ https://www.joinonelove.org/signs-unhealthy-relationship/
- ↑ https://uknowledge.uky.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1114&context=crvaw_facpub
- ↑ https://www.missouristate.edu/FinancialAid/RealLIFE/_Files/Creating_a_Personal_Financial_Plan.pdf
- ↑ https://www.uscourts.gov/services-forms/bankruptcy/bankruptcy-basics/process-bankruptcy-basics
About This Article
To start a new life, start by clearly defining what specific and concrete goals you want to achieve. For example, if you want to start a career as a police officer, set this as your big, overall goal. Then, break this goal down into smaller objectives, like talking with a police recruiter or getting in shape so that you can pass the fitness test. Next, break these objectives down even further into smaller, more manageable tasks, such as locating the recruiting office and exercising 3 times a week. Finally, give yourself a timeline and track your progress for each completed task. For more advice from our reviewer, including how to stay happy on your journey, read on!
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