This article was co-authored by Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
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Even if you think you know your partner well, there are probably still a few surprises that lie ahead. No matter if you’ve been dating for just a few months or have been together for years, there are always new things you two can learn about each other to strengthen your connection. If you’re ready to build intimacy and bond with your partner, keep reading: we’ll give you the 21 top things you should know about your partner to bring you two even closer.
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Remember, your “ideal” partner might not check every single one of your boxes. Find someone who you’re mostly compatible with and work on getting to know them more.Thanks
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You don’t have to learn all of this at once, especially in a new relationship. As you get more comfortable with each other, you and your partner will naturally learn more about each other.Thanks
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