Sweet & Spicy Truth or Dare Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

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Fun and flirty questions to keep your boyfriend on his toes

Co-authored by Laura Bilotta and Bailey Cho

Last Updated: September 1, 2024 Fact Checked

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Flirty Truth Questions

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Spicy Truth Questions

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Romantic Truth Questions

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Flirty Dares

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Spicy Dares

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Romantic Dares

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Expert Interview

Looking to learn more about your other half and keep the spark alive? If so, we’ve got you covered! Truth or dare is a classic way to get to know someone better, but it’s even more exciting when you play with your partner. In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of romantic and spicy questions to deepen your relationship and get both of your hearts racing (even if you’re not in the same room).

Section 1 of 6:

Flirty Truth Questions

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When do I look the most attractive?

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What song puts you in the mood?
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What’s something non-sexual that turns you on?
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What turns you on?
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What’s your biggest turn-off?
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What’s your favorite thing I do in bed?
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What’s your favorite body part of mine?
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What’s your biggest guilty pleasure?
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What outfit do I look the sexiest in?
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Do you ever clear your search history?
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Have you ever been in a secret relationship?
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Have you ever been turned on at work?

Section 2 of 6:

Spicy Truth Questions

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If so, by who?
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Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
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Do you prefer giving or receiving?
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What’s your biggest sexual fantasy? ^{[1]
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What are your thoughts on open relationships?
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What’s your most awkward or embarrassing sexual experience? ^{[2]
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Where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
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How would you define cheating?
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Where’s your favorite place to be kissed?
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What was your sexual awakening?
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What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told an ex?
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Who’s your celebrity hall pass?
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Have you ever sent a dirty text to the wrong person?
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If you woke up like me tomorrow, what’s the first thing you would do?
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Would you rather give up kissing or sex?
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Would you rather have average sex every day or incredible sex once a month?
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Do you prefer being dominant or submissive?
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What’s your favorite position?

Section 3 of 6:

Romantic Truth Questions

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What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
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What’s your favorite thing we do together?
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What’s your favorite memory of us?
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What’s the most annoying thing I do?
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What’s your favorite thing about me?
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When was your first kiss?
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What’s your biggest red flag in a relationship?
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What’s the most romantic gift you’ve ever received?
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Do you believe in soulmates?
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Do you believe in love at first sight?
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How would you approach me if we weren’t dating?
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Do you think age gaps matter in a relationship?
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When did you realize you really liked me?
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What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done to get someone’s attention?
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What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone?
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What’s your biggest fear about our relationship?
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How did you know I was attracted to you?
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What’s your favorite meal that I cook?
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What was your longest relationship?
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What’s the most childish thing you’ve ever done in a relationship?

Section 4 of 6:

Flirty Dares

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Send me a video of yourself performing a sexy dance.
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Send me a sexy audio message.
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Send me a flirty text only using emojis.
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Let me go through your search history.
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Play me a song that puts you in the mood.
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Pretend you don’t know me, and try to pick me up.
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Order a sexy outfit for me online.
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Try to find my most ticklish spot.
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Pretend to be my pet for the next 10 minutes.
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Do as many pushups as you can with me sitting on you.
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Recreate a couple’s yoga pose with me.
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Spell the alphabet on your favorite part of my body.
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Describe your biggest turn-on without naming it.
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“Accidentally” text your sibling a sexy message.
Make me a dating profile on Tinder.

Section 5 of 6:

Spicy Dares

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Give me your best sexy crawl.
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Make out with an object in your room.
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Pick one piece of clothing you want me to take off.
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Perform a strip tease for me.
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Call your friend and moan in the middle of the conversation.
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Call your friend and describe your biggest turn-on.
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Leave your friend a spicy voicemail.
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Describe the hottest dream you’ve had about me.
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Strip down to your underwear for the rest of the game.
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Spell a word on my body, using your tongue.
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Let me shave one part of your body.
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Switch outfits with me (including underwear).
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Create an outfit with anything but clothes.
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Lick whipped cream off my body.
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Hold an ice cube between your teeth and run it across my neck.
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Write my name on your chest and send me a photo.
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Kiss your favorite part of my body. ^{[3]
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Take off one piece of my clothing with your teeth.
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Eat food of your choice in the most seductive way possible.
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Section 6 of 6:

Romantic Dares

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Send me the most embarrassing photo of yourself.
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Record an ASMR video for me.
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Write me a romantic poem.
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Draw a portrait of me.
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Tell me about your first crush.
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Do your best impression of me.
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Sing a romantic song for me.
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Braid my hair.
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Give me a foot massage.
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Let me give you a makeover.
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Act out your favorite romantic scene with me.
- If you want to play truth or dare without revealing too much personal information, first set boundaries. Avoid topics like past relationships.
- Focus on fun and playful dares rather than embarrassing or risky ones.
- Use the "skip" option if a truth question is too personal or uncomfortable.