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So, you want to spice things up with your boyfriend? You’re in the mood and want to get him feeling it too without it getting awkward. There’s no shame in talking or texting sexy to your boyfriend, especially when you want to have some fun! Maybe you want to up the antics with some flirts or juicy questions that’ll make his mind wander. Either way, we’ve compiled a list of freaky questions you can ask your boyfriend.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed psychosexual therapist, Jacqueline Hellyer, founder of The Love Life Blog and The LoveLife Clinic. Check out the full interview here.
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Quiz Pack: We’ve handpicked these quizzes just for you.
Expert Q&A
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking “dirty” with your boyfriend, so why do we call it “dirty talk?” The negative energy around the phrase can make you feel like you’re doing something wrong, but you’re not! Talking sexy with your boyfriend is fun, playful, healthy, and completely and 100% normal. So, ditch “dirty talk” because having some sexual fun with your boyfriend is not “dirty” at all.[11]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/couples-questions-sexy-talk
- ↑ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/couples-questions-sexy-talk#slide-4
- ↑ https://popculture.com/lifestyle/news/21-fun-and-sexy-questions-to-ask-your-partner/#1
- ↑ Jacqueline Hellyer. Licensed Psychosexual Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 October 2021.
- ↑ Jacqueline Hellyer. Licensed Psychosexual Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 October 2021.
- ↑ Jacqueline Hellyer. Licensed Psychosexual Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 October 2021.
- ↑ Jacqueline Hellyer. Licensed Psychosexual Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 October 2021.
- ↑ https://ponly.com/dirty-would-you-rather-questions/
- ↑ Jacqueline Hellyer. Licensed Psychosexual Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 October 2021.