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Whether you spend every day with your boyfriend or are in a long-distance relationship, there are some things you can’t express verbally. Texting is a great way to show your boyfriend how much he means to you and make him feel like the most special guy in the world. If you’re at a loss for words, keep reading: we’ve compiled a list of deep, romantic texts to send your boyfriend to let him know how much you care.
Things You Should Know
- Let him know you’re thankful for everything he’s done for you and for the love you share.
- Show him you’re in this relationship for the long haul by referencing your future together.
- Convey how much you admire him and let him know you’re your best self around him.
Steps
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do I start a deep conversation with my partner?Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCCMoshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).
Marriage & Family TherapistMake sure that all of your communication comes from a place of love! Focus on really sharing common ground and figuring out what you want to achieve. How can you be kind and gentle and share your feelings and needs without sounding controlling? Try to have a better understanding of yourself, and always listen to your partner to understand them. Once you establish a healthy connection of that and you're not resorting to aggression or anger, it will be easier to open up.
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Keep all your communication from a place of love as you share your thoughts, feelings, and needs with your boyfriend.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/finding-true-love/200906/dating-advice-the-411-on-positive-self-affirmations-dating-success
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/the-little-things-can-mean-everything-in-a-relationship
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-i-m-approach/202407/the-2-most-important-words-to-say-in-a-relationship
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/understanding-love-stages-and-languages