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Commitment in relationships: you've heard the phrase tossed around, but what exactly does it mean? Commitment looks different depending on your relationship dynamic, but there are a few signs that can tell you for sure that you and your partner are committed and going strong. And if you don't? We'll teach you how to work on things together. Below, we're giving you a full rundown on relationship commitment. Let's get started!
Things You Should Know
- Commitment simply means that you intend to be coupled with someone for the long term. When you think of your life in the future, you assume they'll be there with you.
- Show you're committed by making time for your partner, supporting them, and including them in your future plans. Ask them for input on major decisions you make. *If you or your partner has a fear of commitment, practice by committing to small things in the near future. Commit to bigger things when your comfort level increases.
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